4 Things I’m Ditching This Summer

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Summer is just around the corner, and we’ve finally emerged from the icy grip of winter. The blossoms are bursting, and we’re peeling off our socks to reveal those not-so-perfect toes as we step into our flip-flops. Kids are bouncing off the walls in the classroom, and we’ve completely forgotten about the importance of checking homework or packing nutritious lunches.

It’s that time of year again: summer vacation. Ah, summer vacation! That enchanting period when kids are home all day, and the fridge is perpetually empty of popsicles. The days stretch longer, cocktails become sweeter, and the sunscreen battles begin. With summer comes the relentless pressure to keep our little ones entertained, while sunny days trick us into believing we must capture every picture-perfect moment at the beach or park.

Everywhere you turn, there are articles on how to whip up the ideal mojito or lists of 101 must-visit spots for families in June. Stores entice us with promises of unforgettable memories, urging us to buy that gigantic inflatable slide or extravagant jump house. Moms compete over who’s signed their kids up for the most enrichment camps, while our social media feeds overflow with images of friends enjoying vacations that seem way out of our budget.

Summer reading lists, endless BBQ invites, swim parties, and family reunions make that summer dream feel less dreamy and more exhausting—especially for moms.

I’m calling it out, folks.

I’m reclaiming my summer! I want genuine relaxation and real fun. I’m ready for a slower pace and less stress during those glorious months when I don’t have to wake up early to pack lunches. Those mojitos should be savored, and evenings by the fire pit should stretch late into the night. So, how am I going to pull this off? Let me share my game plan. Spoiler alert: If you’re seeking tips on “spending more time with the kids” or “putting down your phone,” this isn’t the list for you.

1. I won’t restrict my screen time.

There’s a ton of chatter about unplugging, and sure, I get it. But let’s face it—I run an online business, and my freelance work demands I stay connected. I can respond to emails while lounging by the pool, and yes, I might check my social media too. So judge me if you must while I balance work and fun; I’m just keeping the snacks stocked.

2. I won’t skip my workouts.

When my kids are in school, I’m a fitness warrior. I thrive on runs with friends and spin classes, so why should that halt during summer? This year, while my kids enjoy the pool, I’ll be swimming laps. They’ll have to endure a few extra minutes of waiting while I prioritize my sanity. Healthy habits are lessons worth modeling, after all.

3. I won’t schedule every second.

For years, I meticulously planned every summer outing down to the last snack, only to end up grumpy before the fun even began. This year, I’m embracing downtime. We’ll have lazy afternoons where we can lounge with a good book. I’m stepping back from the hustle and letting my kids figure out how to entertain themselves. Boredom fosters creativity, right?

4. I won’t blow my budget on summer camps.

Every March, I’ve gone on the hunt for the ideal camps, but the reality is that it leads to early mornings, complex carpools, and exhausting drives. My kids often reminisce about simple moments like skipping rocks at a creek more than the pricey camps I stressfully orchestrated. This summer, it’s all about affordable fun and less spending. If they miss out on Space Camp, so be it!

Some may view my list as selfish, but for me, it’s a survival strategy. My kids deserve a mom who is relaxed and present during this carefree season. If anyone judges me for prioritizing my well-being so I can be my best for them, they can enjoy their judgmental vibes elsewhere—preferably away from my patio and my margarita.

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In summary, this summer, I’m embracing a more relaxed approach, allowing both myself and my kids to enjoy our time together without the burden of constant planning or spending. I’ll focus on my well-being and aim for memorable moments, even if they aren’t picture-perfect.