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We Need Our Mama Tribes
I can’t stress enough how much I need my mama tribe. I remember when I first stepped into motherhood, and someone casually asked if I had made any “mommy friends” yet. I shrugged it off with a nonchalant “I have a couple, I guess,” not realizing that those few acquaintances would blossom into a supportive sisterhood that lifts me up on my toughest days.
Have you found your mama tribe? I sincerely hope you have. Whether it’s just you and one friend or a whole crew of twenty, we all need our mama tribes.
Oh, how we truly need our mama tribes.
You need that friend who understands how sleep deprivation can transform you into an unrecognizable version of yourself. She’ll drag you out for a caffeine fix, kids in tow, causing a delightful ruckus in the café while you both rock matching messy buns, making it through the day without losing your minds.
You need that mama who believes “workout chic” or “pajama fabulous” is always appropriate. Let’s agree to show up in gym clothes, pretending we’ve just crushed a tough workout when we’re really off to indulge in cinnamon rolls while grumbling about our sore backs.
She’s the one you can hang out with in your most unkempt state, no mascara or teeth brushing required. She’ll still want to spend time with you, embracing your raw beauty without judgment.
You also need that friend to discuss the ins and outs of potty training for an entire half hour. You’ll exchange photos of your kids’ diaper contents, debating whether those are bits of undigested watermelon or something more alarming. Together, you’ll celebrate when your little one finally gets past their constipation woes.
Sometimes you arrive at a playdate knowing that tears are nearly inevitable due to life’s challenges. You push through the day with your kids, counting down to 3 p.m., and once you’re with your tribe, you can hand off your crying baby while another distracts your toddler. You pour your heart out, cry, get hugs, and feel truly heard. Afterward, you walk away feeling like a superhero because they remind you that you’re not alone.
There’s that one mama who has seen you at your absolute worst without judging you. She has witnessed your moments of frustration and your desperate attempts to bribe your toddler for a moment of peace. She’s been by your side during tantrum eruptions, and afterward, she’ll reassure you that you did great, that you handled it like a champ, and that you’re an amazing mom.
We often question if we’re truly wonderful mothers, right? Motherhood can feel isolating, making it seem like everyone else has it all figured out while we struggle. It’s easy to feel guilty, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But then, these incredible women—your unexpected sisters—step in to remind you that we’re all in this together. Everyone faces challenges, and no one has it completely together. Despite their own struggles, they’ll drop everything to be there for you when you need it most.
I’ve been reflecting on each member of my mama tribe lately, feeling so fortunate to have found them. Thank you for that timely text when I needed encouragement. Thank you for reminding me not to feel guilty about things I know I will. Thank you for bringing me food and laughter while I was stuck at home recovering from a C-section. Thank you for loving my kids just as fiercely as your own, stepping in without being asked. Thank you for knowing what I need because, hey, you’ve likely been there too.
We need our mama tribes. I need mine. You need yours. We all need each other, especially during this beautiful chaos we call motherhood.
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In summary, our mama tribes are essential for support, understanding, and camaraderie in the wild ride of motherhood. We uplift each other, share our struggles, and celebrate our victories—together.