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The Joy of Growing Up with Cousins
When my brother Alex and his wife showed up at my door one chilly evening with the exciting news that they were expecting, I was over the moon. Sure, I could hardly wait to meet their little one, and I was thrilled for my younger brother—it was a dream come true for them. But what truly excited me? The thought that my 7-month-old and my 2-year-old were about to have cousins to grow up with—something I missed out on.
Fast forward nine years, and here we are with seven kids shared between my two siblings and me. This journey has filled our lives with joy and laughter. Growing up with cousins offers some priceless experiences, like:
- Stronger Sisterly Bonds
We gather like a school of fish, watching our kiddos dart around while we dive into conversations about childbirth, breastfeeding, tantrums, and the lovely chaos of parenting. My sisters always keep it real; they won’t sugarcoat their opinions. Plus, we’re each other’s escape routes, knowing when to say, “Alright, I need a breather!” We enjoy too many snacks and not enough drinks until we can’t wait to rush back to our little treasures. - Sleepover Bliss
My kids get to enjoy the magic of sleepovers, and I know they’re in good hands. I don’t have to worry or send a million texts to check in. My sisters are great about sending me updates and photos, and they’re also not shy to say, “Hey, time for you to pick up your kid!” - Unbreakable Connections
These kids don’t remember life without each other, creating bonds that run deeper than friendships. They like each other more than their siblings because they don’t have the chance to annoy one another as much. My daughter may not have a sister, but she has a cousin who is her ride-or-die. They’ve even promised to be each other’s maid of honor, developed a secret language, and swapped clothes like pros. It really doesn’t get any better than that! - A United Front
If you mess with one cousin, you’ll face the wrath of all—especially if someone picks on the littlest one. That’s a lesson no kid will forget easily. - A Safe Space for Venting
As they grow up, they’ll inevitably encounter family drama. They’ll have a confidant when they say, “Why on earth did Aunt Rachel lose her cool again? She needs to get it together.” They’ll always have someone to vent to who truly understands.
I’m not wishing away their childhood, but I can’t wait to hear their thoughts on what it meant to grow up together. I suspect their answer will be that it meant everything.
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Summary: Growing up with cousins is an enriching experience that fosters strong family ties, offers a safe space for childhood adventures, and creates lasting bonds. With sleepovers, shared joys, and a united front against life’s challenges, the journey of growing up with cousins is truly a gift.