To All the Amazing Working Moms: You’ve Got This!

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Dear Working Mom,

You are absolutely crushing it, even if you don’t always feel that way! It’s tough being away from your little ones, and frankly, it can feel like the hardest job in the world. But trust me, I get it—I’m right there with you.

That “Mom Guilt” you’re feeling? Oh, believe me, it’s as real as that pile of laundry waiting to be tackled. Do your kids know how much you love them? Do they see you enough? Are you giving them the attention they need? It’s totally normal to wonder if you’re somehow messing it all up.

You’re not alone, Working Mom. There are countless women out there—strong, ambitious, and hardworking—who are doing their best to provide for their families while still trying to carve out some joy for themselves. It can feel like a constant battle; when you excel at work, it sometimes feels like home is taking a hit. You juggle your responsibilities, wishing for more “me time” than just the commute. You crave extra moments with your kids, even while counting down the minutes to their bedtime so you can finally tackle that ever-growing to-do list.

I know that for many of you, working isn’t a choice. You’re doing it out of necessity, which can make it feel like you’re trapped in a never-ending cycle. You dream of a different reality—one where you can pay the bills, spend time with your kids, and feel fulfilled.

You’re not alone during those frantic morning drop-offs, hoping you won’t hit traffic and be late again. You’re not alone when you use your precious vacation days to stay home with a sick child or when you’re filled with heartbreak sending them off to school because you have no time-off left. You’re not alone when you skip nights out with friends because every minute away from your kids feels like a sacrifice.

You’re not alone with those store-bought cupcakes for the class party because, let’s be honest, who has time to bake? And remember, your kids don’t care as long as you remembered! You’re not alone when you drop your little one off in tears, wishing you could stay, while also feeling a weird mix of relief at the thought of a “break” at work (which, let’s face it, never really happens). You’re not alone when you wonder if your child loves the nanny more than you (spoiler: they don’t).

You’re not alone when you’re juggling spit-up, your breast pump, and yet another cup of coffee just to make it through the day. You’re not alone when you scroll through photos from the weekend, wishing you could be two places at once. You’re not alone when you cry yourself to sleep because you missed a milestone moment. You want to be there for every step and every word, and it’s heartbreaking when you can’t be.

But here’s the truth, Mama: you are enough. You’re not alone in trying to manage groceries, dinner, cleaning, laundry, and everything else while still making time for your kids. A mother’s work is never done; you know that better than anyone.

But, let me tell you something—you’re not alone when you’re actively teaching your kids, engaging with them, and showing them love every single day. You’re the one kissing boo-boos, chasing away monsters, singing silly songs, and reading one more bedtime story (even if you skip a few pages to get to the end). You treasure every moment with them and make sure they know they are loved.

Mama, you are literally building the world for your kids. You’re showing them that it’s possible to balance work and family, even when it feels impossible. Sure, sacrifices are made, but they know you love them, and they learn from you daily. One day, they’ll understand that whether it’s because you want to or because you have to, you do it all for them.

I hear it gets easier as our kids grow up. These days may be tough, but they’re also some of the best. Let’s make the most of them together!

We are amazing mothers, Working Mom. We’re doing our best. We’ve got this!

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