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Our Kids Are Watching, So Let’s Not Be Jerks
In my journey through parenting, one thing has become crystal clear: our children are always observing us. As adults, we need to ditch the jerk behavior; otherwise, we’ll only contribute to a world full of more entitled brats. So, let’s make an effort to set a better example because, honestly, we’re all tired of self-centered people.
If your little ones have made a mess of sugar packets and jelly containers at a restaurant and you think it’s okay to leave without cleaning up or tipping well, you’re not doing anyone any favors. If your kids can’t make it through a meal without wrecking the place, someone needs to deal with that mess. Seriously, how much would you pay to scrub jelly, ketchup, and half a salt shaker off the table? And what would it take to make crawling under a table to pick up smashed fries or buttery pasta worthwhile?
And let’s talk about feeding babies. If a parent is breastfeeding or using a bottle and you feel compelled to voice your displeasure, you’re just being rude. No mother has ever changed her mind because someone decided to criticize how she nourishes her child. Keep your opinions to yourself, please.
If your child is misbehaving, it’s your job to help them understand what’s acceptable and what isn’t. Whether they’re hitting, lying, or throwing things, it’s essential to teach them not to be jerks. If you don’t intervene, someone else will, and that’s not a lesson we want them to learn.
When in a public place and a child is crying, especially near a playground, don’t be that person who complains to the manager. Just leave. Put on your big person pants, stand up, and walk out. If your kid is running wild during a serious moment—like in church or a wedding—scoop them up and head for the exit. Don’t ruin it for everyone else.
At kids’ performances, if someone is trying to enjoy the show behind you, don’t be the one who stands up with their phone held high to record every second. Take a quick picture, then sit down. You’re not the camera crew, so don’t act like it.
And during sporting events, if you’re on the sidelines yelling things that aren’t constructive, you’re just being annoying. Kids can’t hear you, and your over-the-top reactions won’t help them play better. Take a breath; it’s not the Olympics.
We’ve all encountered enough unpleasant people in our lives. It’s time to reduce the jerk population. Our kids are watching and will likely mimic our behavior. If we all practice a little kindness and self-control, think how much happier we could all be. The next time you feel the urge to act out, take a moment to think about the example you’re setting for future generations.
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Summary:
In parenting, it’s vital to remember that our children are always observing us. We must strive to model positive behavior and kindness, as our actions will influence the next generation. By practicing self-control and compassion, we can create a better environment for our kids. Let’s work together to reduce the number of unpleasant people in the world.