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Frustrated Expecting Mom of Two Denied Tubal Ligation Due to Age
A mother is fuming after being denied the opportunity to undergo a tubal ligation, despite her clear desire to stop expanding her family. Meet Sara Thompson, a 22-year-old from Australia who is already the proud parent of two young children, with another on the way. Despite her circumstances, she has been repeatedly told by various medical professionals that she’s “too young” to make this significant decision about her own body.
In a candid Facebook post, Sara shared her frustration, revealing that all three of her children were conceived due to contraceptive mishaps. “I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant with my third contraception baby,” she wrote. “It’s frustrating when people assume I’m not using contraception or that I want three kids in three years—that’s simply not the case.”
Earlier this month, Sara approached her primary care physician to seek a referral for a tubal ligation, a procedure where a woman’s fallopian tubes are either blocked or cut to prevent future pregnancies. While her doctor was supportive and provided several referrals, each specialist she contacted turned her down, citing her age as a significant factor.
“The specialist at my hospital said some things that brought me to tears,” Sara recounted. “My husband had to comfort me and remind me that I was making the right choice. I understand that I might regret this decision, but I’m prepared for that.”
Adding to the perplexity of the situation, Sara’s husband, Mark, attempted to get a vasectomy, only to be denied as well due to his wife’s age. Although Mark is 30 years old, it seems that being married to a younger woman means his reproductive choices are also up for discussion.
Appalled by the treatment she has received, Sara has launched a petition directed at Prime Minister Anthony Albanese, urging him to advocate for women’s rights regarding tubal ligation at any age. The petition and her social media presence have garnered significant attention, even reaching the chief obstetrician at her local hospital, who is now reviewing her case.
A hospital spokesperson acknowledged that Sara would be meeting with a senior obstetrician, but cautioned that tubal ligation is viewed as a permanent procedure. They stated, “It is uncommon to perform this procedure on someone as young as 22 since studies show a high probability of future regret.”
While it’s true that some women may later have regrets about sterilization—with a 2010 CDC study indicating that up to 26% of women experience regret—Sara’s situation sheds light on a broader issue in women’s healthcare: the pervasive assumption that women lack the ability to make informed choices about their own bodies.
My own mother faced a similar scenario at 27 when she was denied a tubal ligation, despite already having three children, including newborn twins. She was told to return once she reached 30. Another writer in the office shared that her mother encountered the same issue at the same age, resulting in an unexpected little brother.
Healthcare providers may fear patient regret, but such fears often infantilize women, treating us as if we can’t make our own reproductive decisions. Not every mother desires more children, and many women don’t want any at all. As long as we are healthy and understand the consequences, we should be empowered to make these choices ourselves.
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In short, Sara’s case is a reminder of the importance of trusting women to make informed decisions about their own reproductive futures.