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16 Essential Tips for My Tween Daughter Before She Hits ‘Post’
My tween daughter and her friends have two main habitats for their phones: either tightly gripped in their hands or stashed away in their back pockets. While their texting speed could put mine to shame and their selfie skills are on point, there are some vital lessons I want to share before they dive too deep into the world of social media.
- Duck faces? Let’s just say, they’re not my favorite. Sure, a few won’t hurt, but how about mixing it up a little? Please!
- I get that curating your Instagram feed to six photos or fewer is all the rage. But social media is about sharing your story—don’t delete your memories!
- Embrace who you are. You’re smart, strong, kind, and funny—don’t pretend to be someone else!
- Respect yourself. Remember, everything you post or share is visible to anyone. No crush is worth risking your future college admissions officer or gasp your mom seeing questionable pics.
- If someone pressures you to share inappropriate content, it’s time to say goodbye. #ByeFelicia
- Your friends are treasures, so treat them like gold! Compliment them, ask before posting their pics, and always spread kindness.
- If you see someone struggling, be the first to lend a helping hand. No likes on their post? Be the first to click! If someone’s being bullied, stand up for them. Not sure how? Just ask me. It’s crucial to be remembered as a friend, not just a scroller.
- Seriously, what’s up with asking to be “rated” on Instagram? Just stop.
- Your voice is powerful—use it wisely. Don’t intentionally hurt or exclude others.
- If something feels off, trust that gut feeling! It’s your best compass. Pause, step back, and seek help if needed.
- You’re never obligated to join anything online—be it group chats, memes, or whatever else. Your comfort comes first.
- I’m always here for you. Whether you need advice, someone to step in, or just a listening ear, just let me know. You’re balancing a lot right now, and I respect that. Remember, you’re not alone—I’m here to support you.
- Mistakes are part of life. You won’t get in trouble for them, but lying will land you in hot water. Let’s keep the lines of communication open.
- It’s all about quality over quantity. Followers, friends, posts—choose wisely.
- Never act superior to others. You are unique and worthy, but so is everyone else. Treat everyone with kindness—disrespect will cost you your phone privileges. Seriously!
- Don’t take life too seriously. A little laughter can change everything for the better.
While these tips are directed at girls, they apply to boys too. Imagine a tween world without excessive duck faces! That’s a world I’d love to see.
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In summary, these 16 tips are essential for helping my tween navigate the tricky waters of social media while staying true to herself and treating others with respect.