My “Forget It” List Has Taken Over My Bucket List

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I’ve got a bucket list, just like you probably do, but right now, my “Forget It” list is front and center. Sure, one day I’ll make it to Italy to indulge in pasta and wine, along with ticking off the rest of my bucket list items. But for now, those ambitions are on hold. My mind simply doesn’t have the bandwidth for both lists. I’ve discovered that embracing a “forget it” mindset is incredibly liberating. If something doesn’t spark joy, I just say “forget it.” If I’m stuck with it, then forget it—I’ll just roll with the punches. I take pride in my ever-growing list. The older I get, the larger it becomes, and the more content I feel. It’s amazing how much better things seem when you add a little “forget it” to the mix. Here are ten of my most memorable “forget its.”

1. The Tupperware Cabinet

Since my first child learned to crawl, that cabinet has become a black hole of time. It’ll forever be known as his first babysitter. I’ve come to realize that trying to maintain a neat Tupperware cabinet while raising kids is a lost cause. I no longer stress about matching lids to containers. Instead, I wrap leftovers in plastic wrap and pour myself a glass of wine—preferably out of my “forget it” glass.

2. Matching Socks

Life’s too short to worry about this. Every time I look at my kids’ feet, one of them has a sock missing or they’re mismatched. So, I toss them in a drawer and think, “Forget it, I did my best, and nobody really cares.”

3. Clearing Out the Junk Drawer

Nah, I’m not going to bother. It’s much more fun to dump the drawer’s contents in the trash and make space for more clutter. Just like that, I’ve saved myself hours of headache!

4. Hitting the Drive-Thru

I need my caffeine fix, and yes, I’ve tried to quit—multiple times! But forget it, sometimes it’s best for everyone if I grab that coffee. Plus, if it’s close to dinner time, announcing another drive-thru night makes everyone happy, especially when they slip into a fry coma on the way home.

5. Lying to My Kids

When they ask if the Easter Bunny was bouncing around our room, sure, I could deliver a lesson about reality, but mixing fiction with important talks is tricky! So, I roll with it—“Yep, kids, that was definitely the Easter Bunny!”—and hand them some extra candy for good measure.

6. Swimsuit Shopping

If I bend over and my bikini top gives me a wardrobe malfunction, so be it! As long as I look good standing still, I’ll take it. This is the essence of “forget it” at its best.

7. Kids’ Wardrobe Choices

My daughter loves her fleece pajamas in sweltering summer heat, while my son prefers shorts with knee socks in freezing weather. After a brief explanation about dressing appropriately, I give them a countdown to change. By the time I hit two, I think, forget it, they can sweat or freeze if they want!

8. Sugar for the Kids

While they enjoy their sugary treats, I’m the fun mom who says, “Sure, go ahead and have another!” I feel great about it until the inevitable sugar rush leads to chaos. At this point, another “forget it” moment arises, and I hand them their iPads to keep the peace.

9. Treating Myself

Whether it’s something pretty, delicious, or new shoes, moms deserve a little indulgence. I justify it by saying, “Forget it, I’ve earned this.” After years of diaper duty, I think I’ve earned the right to a little luxury.

10. Caring if Someone Dislikes Me

This might be more of a “forget you” situation, but honestly, I don’t care. Plenty of people appreciate my “forget it” attitude, and the more I embrace it, the more it seems to resonate with others. Soon, we’re all living happily in our “forget it” bubble!

I’ll get back to my bucket list one day, but for now, I’m too busy watching my kids enjoy their treats, dress how they please, and toss mismatched socks aside. I’m savoring those little moments—like saying yes to that third glass of wine, because really, forget it!

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In summary, my “Forget It” list is a liberating approach to life’s little pressures, allowing me to focus on what truly matters—enjoying my kids and the occasional indulgence.