Like many, I had a mini meltdown as my thirtieth birthday loomed a few years back. Let’s face it—thirty sounds ancient after a decade of wild 20s adventures. Those years were packed with dramatic life shifts: moving out, finding a partner, and starting a family. With so many changes happening so quickly, staring down the big 3-0 made me feel like the party was over and my best days were behind me. But, let me tell you, I was dead wrong. My 30s have been a thrilling ride so far, and it’s because I’ve come to terms with who I was and who I am now. It’s been a period of deep reflection. Here are ten revelations that explain why my 30s are truly the best decade yet.
- Comfortable in My Skin
I may not adore every inch of my body, but I genuinely like it most days. A pimple? Whatever. Bad hair day? Who cares! A little muffin top isn’t the end of the world. I’ve accepted my body as it is and focus on health rather than obsession. I’m proud of what it’s done and give it the grace it deserves. - No Time for Nonsense
If my dentist appointment is at 1 p.m. and I’m still sitting in the waiting room at 1:45, I’m outta there. Same goes for waiting half an hour for a menu at a restaurant—my time is valuable, and if you don’t respect it, I’ll find somewhere else to spend my money. - Quality Over Quantity in Friendships
This is a slow burn lesson learned post-high school and college. You transition from having friends galore to scheduling catch-ups days in advance. It’s all about the real connections you cherish, even if they’re fewer than before. - Eating What I Want
In my 20s, I was a calorie-counting nightmare, constantly asking, “Do I really need that cheesecake?” Now, I’ve adopted the “everything in moderation” mantra. If I want to devour half a chocolate cake for dinner, I’ll do it guilt-free. It’s my body and my life, and I’m over obsessing about food. - The Importance of Self-Care
Gone are the days of all-nighters and excessive drinking before work. I know my body’s needs now, from getting a good night’s sleep to squeezing in a workout DVD to shake off the lethargy. Listening to my body and mind has become essential, and I prioritize my well-being. - I Think I’m Pretty Awesome
I’m not perfect—I’ve still got insecurities—but overall, I genuinely like myself. I know I’m a good person with a great sense of humor. I’m aware of my skills and how to use them. If someone thinks otherwise, it’s their loss. I’m amazing and I own it. - Dreaming Bigger
So much of my 20s was spent questioning my identity and purpose. Now that I’ve found myself to some extent, I can dream with clarity and aim high. Instead of worrying about what I should do, I’m focused on what I want to do. The freedom to pursue my dreams is exhilarating. - Strong Beliefs
My religious views are clear, my thoughts on social justice are well-researched, and my parenting and marriage philosophies are solid. Unlike in the past when I was easily swayed, I now stand firm in my beliefs. I’m open to new ideas, yet confident in my convictions. - Embracing My Flaws
I’m not the best housekeeper, and I have a temper. I might skip washing my face at night. While I’m all for self-improvement, I’ve accepted that some quirks are just me. I’m done stressing over them; they’re part of who I am. - Optimistic About the Future
With the soul-searching of my 20s behind me, I feel optimistic about my path ahead. I believe I can raise great kids, be a supportive partner, and make a positive impact in the world. That hope feels fantastic.
My 30s are shaping up to be an incredible decade. I’ve heard from wiser women that the 40s are even better. While some of my friends fret about aging, I’m excited for the experiences, wisdom, and self-confidence that lie ahead. Bring it on, life!
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In summary, my 30s have been a transformative time, filled with self-discovery, acceptance, and optimism about the future.