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Breastfeeding Mom Highlights the Irony of Being Shamed in a Bra Store
A mother in Tennessee recently shed light on the ridiculousness of being criticized for breastfeeding in a place that sells bras. It seems that while breasts are perfectly acceptable for display in suggestive advertisements, they become a taboo when used for their primary biological function: feeding a baby.
Meet Emily Carter
Emily shared a striking photo on Facebook of herself nursing her child in front of a large bra advertisement at Dillard’s after an employee advised her to move to the restroom to feed her baby. “Why is it fine for a massive image of breasts to be on the wall, but I can’t feed my child?” Emily questioned, and honestly, we’re just as confused.
In her post, Emily recounted that her 18-month-old was getting fussy, so she asked a staff member if it was permissible to nurse in the store. Initially, the employee nodded in agreement, but moments later, she was told to relocate to the restroom. Shocked, Emily couldn’t believe she was expected to stop feeding her baby, gather her things, and head to the nearest bathroom—a place designated for, well, not exactly dining.
Dillard’s Response
Dillard’s has since apologized and released a statement on Facebook, but the absurdity of this situation remains. The store is filled with bras designed to support and enhance the bust, yet a mother feeding her child with her breasts is deemed inappropriate. It makes you wonder: Is it okay for an employee to measure and fit a woman for a bra but not okay for her to breastfeed?
Community Support and Discussion
Many mothers chimed in to voice their support for Emily, pointing out the broader societal issues surrounding breastfeeding. Some suggested that perhaps animals should be more discreet, while others argued for a much-needed shift in how we view breasts in a non-sexual context.
Despite the overwhelming support, a few commenters felt that breastfeeding mothers should cover up more. Emily reflected on some of the harsh comments she received, including one suggesting that she was a bad mother for breastfeeding instead of using cow’s milk. “Why do people think milk from animals is better than human milk?” she mused. Emily emphasized that all parents aim for the same goal: raising their children with love and health, even if their methods differ.
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Conclusion
In summary, Emily Carter’s experience at Dillard’s has sparked a conversation about the double standards surrounding breastfeeding in public spaces. While the store promotes products that highlight breasts in a sexualized way, they discourage their use for nurturing a baby. The incident has resonated with many mothers, encouraging a dialogue about acceptance and normalization of breastfeeding.