Your Kid May Drive You Crazy Now, But It Could Pay Off Later

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One of the biggest misconceptions parents often cling to is the belief that their child is flawless. You know the drill—they’re your little angel, capable of nothing wrong. They’re the cutest bundle of joy, and you’re convinced they were the first to walk and talk because they’re just that brilliant. Bow down to the most exceptional child to have ever existed!

However, as your child grows, maintaining this illusion becomes increasingly difficult as their less-than-stellar behaviors stack up. The “terrible twos,” the “threenage” years, and those cheeky “eff-you” fours are excellent at unveiling your child’s imperfections. But don’t worry—there are strategies to help you cope with acknowledging these flaws while still pretending they’re a gift from above.

One approach is to convince yourself that those pesky traits your little one exhibits at ages 3, 5, or 7 might actually benefit them as adults. Depending on the path they choose, you could be onto something. While we all strive to raise kind, compassionate, and open-minded individuals, the harsh reality is that the world is filled with challenges, and sometimes, those with a bit of grit come out ahead. So, perhaps your child’s “difficult” personality will serve them well in the future!

Challenging Behaviors That Might Yield Rewards

Here are some examples of challenging behaviors that might actually yield rewards later, especially if they aim for the elite 1% or venture into politics:

• Refusal to accept “no.” Determination is a valuable trait that can help them tackle obstacles and become a successful individual who doesn’t back down easily.
• Never satisfied with “yes.” My 5-year-old constantly wants more. While this attitude may seem ungrateful now, it could lead him to great success as an adult. After all, in the world of business, a little ambition never hurt anyone!
• Talks non-stop. While I’m unsure how this translates into adult success, perhaps it could come in handy during a filibuster in Congress!
• Acts on whims. Doing whatever they please, whenever they want, regardless of context, isn’t typically tolerated in adults. However, if played right, it could land them a prominent political position.
• Tantrums when things don’t go their way. Clearly, this child is destined for a future in politics. Count your blessings!
• Stubbornness. When my 5-year-old refuses to budge, he turns into a human noodle, making it impossible to move him. Maybe he’ll excel as a hockey goalie someday? Let’s be real—many of the most notorious figures in politics share similar traits.

Kids and adults aren’t all that different. The primary difference—aside from bills and responsibilities—is that adults learn to rein in their emotions, at least in public. Most of us would likely throw tantrums too, if it weren’t for the fear of social embarrassment or getting fired.

So, don’t be too hard on your defiant little ruler. One day, those traits that seem so frustrating now might become the very qualities that propel them into public office!

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Summary

Parenting can be challenging, especially when you recognize your child’s less-than-perfect traits. However, many of these behaviors could serve them well in adulthood, especially in competitive fields like politics or business. Embrace their uniqueness and remember that those frustrating traits may one day lead to success.