Hey Moms in the School Drop-Off Line, It’s Time to Step Out of the Car!

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Last year was a chaotic whirlwind for my family. Picture this: I was nine months pregnant with my fourth child while navigating a 25-mile trek to school every morning. Trust me, I would have jumped at the chance for a bus service to prevent a headline like, “Mom Gives Birth on the Highway.” Our new home was almost ready, and I figured it made sense to start the kids at their future school to avoid switching them twice. A decision I don’t regret, but with a newborn on the scene, I became a pro at staying put in the car during drop-offs.

Even after the baby arrived, I resisted getting out of the car for school pickups and drop-offs. The thought of it felt like an Olympic event. “Get out of the car?” I would think, utterly bewildered. Sleep deprivation had transformed me into a professional sloth. My Chevy Suburban’s bucket seat was the closest I got to any relaxation.

These drop-offs and pickups coincided with my most exhausted moments, which meant I missed opportunities to meet other moms—the soccer moms, the PTA moms, the super-organized ones sending out timely reminders like, “Don’t forget it’s spirit day!” Can you believe I was missing out on forming a community?

While watching the Summer Olympics, I kept hearing Maya Angelou’s poem, “Human Family.” It struck me: “We are more alike, my friends, than we are unalike.” Each of us may have a different story, but we’ve all faced our own challenges to get to parenthood, whether through natural birth, C-section, surrogacy, or adoption. We’ve all earned our stripes in this wild journey of motherhood.

With that in mind, I strongly encourage moms to step out of their cars during school drop-offs and connect with others. Here’s why:

1. Expand Your Circle

Parenting is tough, and whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a working parent, having a tribe is invaluable. With two of my four kids now in school, I’m ready to step out of my car and meet some amazing moms. I want to find that one who’s up for a glass of wine, or who might someday lend me a shoulder to cry on. Plus, those organized moms? They’re gold—having someone remind you about spirit day could save your sanity! I’m making connections that will last for years.

2. Be a Helping Hand

No one has it all figured out, and we could all use a little assistance now and then. My kids’ classmates’ parents have become my extended family since my own is far away. Whether it’s carpooling, sharing teacher insights, or helping out during themed days, knowing I can count on others is a huge relief. Plus, I want to be that go-to mom who’s always willing to lend a hand.

3. Build Your Community

Having been in survival mode last year, I hardly spoke to anyone and hardly knew the names of other parents. But I’m done with that! Being actively involved means I can keep up with community happenings and support initiatives like donation drives for families in need. Getting out of my car today made me aware of a running club for kids and parents—I’m all in!

4. Set an Example

While it’s important to take care of myself, my kids come first. Missing my morning workout can wait; I want to be present for them. They light up when I walk them to class, and I cherish every moment. Plus, bringing my baby in a carrier while holding my 4-year-old’s hand? It’s a win-win for my little ones. Hearing them say, “You’re the best, mom,” makes it all worthwhile.

So, I’m declaring that I will park the car at least three out of five school days. Whether it’s volunteering, asking the school office if they need help, or just giving my kids hugs, I’m ready to engage with my community. As C.S. Lewis wisely said, “Children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work.”

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In summary, stepping out of the car during school drop-offs not only helps you build connections with other moms but also fosters a supportive parenting community. Embracing these moments can enrich your family life and set a positive example for your children.