Every mom knows that sometimes you need a little boost. Sure, a team of helpers and a bottomless mimosa bar would be ideal, but let’s be real for a moment. When life gets tangled, try out these five empowering mantras to help you sail through the stormy seas of parenthood.
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This too shall pass.
Your little one just turned the living room into a glitter explosion? Your mother-in-law has once again called you to share her thoughts on your messy kitchen? Your neighbor decided to drop the bomb about bedbugs after your kids had a sleepover?
This too shall pass. Sometimes, the best course of action is to smile through the chaos and remind yourself that this annoyance is temporary. -
If it makes for a good story, it’s worth doing.
Feeling adventurous? Ready to whisk your kids away on a spontaneous trip to an unknown destination? Or perhaps you’re considering saying “yes” to that request for an epic pillow fort sleepover?
Go for it! Ask yourself if this quirky opportunity could lead to a cherished memory. Who cares if it’s not a typical heart-to-heart? These are the moments that become family legends, so embrace them wholeheartedly. -
Be brave. Be bold.
I know it sounds a bit cliché, but those challenging moments when you must face reality are when this mantra shines. Whether you’re standing up for your child against bullies or making tough medical choices for their health, summon your courage.
Motherhood often demands we confront judgment over our decisions, and it can feel overwhelming. But in those moments, we need to be courageous enough to be the mothers we aspire to be, and bold enough to advocate for what we know is right—even if it means taking time for ourselves. -
Will I care when I’m 80?
Thinking of getting that tattoo of a unicorn on your ankle? Go for it! Will you still care about it when you’re in your 80s? If the answer is no, then why not? Want to step back from the PTA, even if it upsets your friends? Ask yourself if you will care when you’re old. This is a fun little game to keep your priorities clear. -
IDGAF.
Sometimes, you just have to throw your hands up and declare, “I don’t give a flip!” because otherwise, life can overwhelm you. Embracing this mindset doesn’t make you inconsiderate or apathetic; it simply means you recognize your limits. Say “no” when needed, and own it. Then pour yourself a glass of wine and relish that carefree attitude—you’ve definitely earned it!
Putting life’s little conflicts into perspective can really help clear the fog. By the time you’re 80, you’ll likely care about love, joy, compassion, and laughter—not about who was upset because you didn’t bake 98 cupcakes for the school bake sale. Forget that noise!
Whatever mantra resonates with you (Namaste, anyone?), use it frequently. Whisper it under your breath or shout it from the rooftops—whatever empowers you to be fierce and strong. Because you absolutely are.
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Summary
Motherhood can be a wild ride, but with the right mindset, you can tackle anything. Use these five mantras to remind yourself that tough times are temporary, embrace spontaneous adventures, stand strong in your choices, and keep perspective on what truly matters. Empower yourself with a positive mantra to navigate the challenges of parenting.