Last Thursday was one for the books. My home looked like a tornado hit it, the kids were in full-on chaos mode, my partner was in a mood, and I was on the verge of tears. So, in true mom fashion, I dialed up my best mom friend and let it all out—while indulging in a glass (or two) of wine. By the end of our chat, I was doubled over with laughter and felt like a million bucks, all thanks to a friend who truly understands me and was willing to lend her time and energy.
Finding a lifelong mom friend is like scoring front-row tickets to your favorite concert—rare and thrilling. When you discover that special connection, you’ll notice several telltale signs:
- She’s your go-to for those embarrassing moments. Whether it’s a piece of spinach stuck in your teeth or a rogue booger, she’s got your back and ensures you don’t leave home looking silly.
- No matter what you show her—be it a mysterious rash or an unexpected hair growth—she won’t flinch. In fact, she might just reveal her own similar experiences to make you feel better or help you research possible remedies.
- She knows that essentials like box wine, coffee, comfy yoga pants, and chocolate are not just clichés but true lifesavers. And she’ll happily drop by with these treasures to lift your spirits.
- If your child is throwing a tantrum, she won’t sugarcoat it. She’ll tell you straight up, while respecting how you wish to handle discipline.
- She understands the boundaries when it comes to your partner and keeps that relationship sacred.
- Think of her as your Thelma to your Louise—always ready to suggest a day of binge-watching cooking shows while sipping mimosas and ordering takeout.
- If you ever need it, she’ll hold your hair back during a rough night. She’s also there with a shoulder to cry on, demonstrating what true, unconditional love looks like.
- She’ll never doubt your parenting decisions unless there’s a serious need for concern. Instead, she’ll cheer you on—whether you’re nursing in public or letting your little one get her ears pierced.
- When the judgment from others comes knocking (because it inevitably does), she’ll be right there to defend you and lend a listening ear.
- Life can throw curveballs—like job loss, sick kids, or relationship troubles—but your best mom friend will show up with a casserole and a willingness to help however she can. Because that’s what real love is all about; it’s about showing up.
This kind of friendship doesn’t mean you have to chat every day or hold each other’s hands through everything. It’s about two souls who truly understand each other and are there for one another, come what may. Kind of like a marriage, but better.
Now it’s my turn to spread some kindness back to my BFF. I think I’ll pop into a bakery and surprise her later.
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In summary, finding a mom friend for life is about discovering someone who supports you, shares your struggles, and brings joy into your chaotic world. It’s a beautiful bond that enriches the journey of motherhood.