Honesty: The Best Approach (For Partners Only)

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When your partner asks you how they look, here’s the game plan:

1. Give them a thorough once-over.
2. Spend a reasonable amount of time looking so your response holds weight.
3. Don’t stare for so long that it hints at unseen flaws or that you’re scrutinizing them too much.
4. Speak the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
5. Keep it simple: just say, “You look fantastic!”

Failing to adhere to these guidelines could lead to a wardrobe crisis that might escalate into a bad mood and being late to your plans. Worst-case scenario? You might end up needing a lawyer. Just kidding! Well, mostly. Every person in a serious relationship knows that navigating questions like “How do I look?” or “Does this outfit make me look big?” is akin to walking through a minefield. You must carefully balance honesty and kindness.

For guys, this is especially tricky. Women, on the other hand, seem perfectly comfortable being candid about their partner’s shortcomings. Men, however, often feel compelled to sugarcoat the truth. If we dare to be brutally honest, it can lead to chaos! So while honesty may be the ideal policy, flattery is the secret weapon.

Every so often, my partner will try on something new and ask for my opinion. When I say “Good” or “No way, you look amazing,” she often responds with, “Really?” as if she doubts my sincerity. I promise I’m not lying (okay, maybe never!), but I get why she might think I am. If I were to express doubt about her outfit, it would unleash a storm of epic proportions.

Yet, when she critiques my appearance—whether it’s suggesting I hit the gym more often or commenting on my shirt fitting a little snugly—I’m expected to just grin and bear it. If I dared to say anything similar to her, it would be World War III, and she would emerge victorious.

It’s not that she means to hurt my feelings; it’s just how things go. I appreciate her nudges to keep me motivated. Honestly, she has a much better sense of style than I do, and I value her opinion. Plus, her choices don’t change how I feel about her. She’s the same amazing woman I fell in love with and started a family with. Sure, those rompers might not be my favorite, but honey, you look great!

Why does this double standard exist? I’m not sure. Maybe it’s tied to societal pressures that dictate beauty standards. In a long-term commitment, those pressures shouldn’t overshadow the feelings of your partner (yes, men have feelings too!). Who knows? I could be wrong.

I’d ask my partner, but I’m afraid she’ll just tease me!

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Summary:

Navigating the delicate balance of honesty and kindness in relationships, especially concerning appearance, can be a challenge. While men often feel pressure to flatter their partners, women freely express their opinions. This article humorously explores those dynamics and highlights the importance of understanding and communication in a romantic partnership.