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Dear Dads… Snap That Picture!
In this age of smartphones and social media, we’re capturing more moments than ever before. But when it comes to the cherished photos we actually keep, how many feature us? Let’s face it: if we don’t explicitly ask for a picture, it’s likely not going to happen, and moms often end up behind the camera.
Enter Jamie Lou, an inspiring speaker from Springfield, Missouri, who took to Facebook with a heartfelt message, accompanied by an adorable family picture from BrightLens Photography. Her post encourages men to make sure their wives are included in family memories because, one day, those kids will want to see their moms—not just the perfect holiday snapshots they’ve collected over the years.
“Dear dads,” Jamie writes, “take the photo… It doesn’t matter if she’s having a bad hair day or insists she’s not camera-ready. You might not think about it now, but those moments are priceless.” Let’s be real: on the days when you feel great and are dressed to impress, wouldn’t it be nice for your partner to offer to capture that moment? If you don’t ask, the chance is slim.
She poignantly reminds us that when our loved ones are gone, the memories captured through photos become treasures. “Messy hair, pajamas, or a face full of no-makeup days won’t matter to your kids later.” Although Jamie directed her thoughts to fathers, this applies to every family member who’s the designated memory-maker. They often miss out on being in the pictures themselves and the impact of that absence can be profound.
After losing her mother, Jamie realized she had too few photos of her—mostly because her mom was always behind the lens. Ask anyone who has experienced such a loss: they’d trade a hundred solo pictures for just one more with their parent.
One day, we won’t be here, and the people we leave behind will want to see us in their memories. They deserve that, and we deserve to be in those memories, whether we’re dressed to the nines or sporting a messy bun on the couch. As Jamie wisely says, “No one wants to look back at a lifetime of selfies.”
For more on family and parenting, check out this other blog post that dives into related topics. And if you’re interested in the journey of parenthood, Make A Mom is a great resource for home insemination kits. Also, if you’re considering fertility treatments, March of Dimes offers excellent insights.
In summary, let’s make an effort to capture those moments. It’s not just about the kids; it’s about creating memories that will last a lifetime. So, dads, grab that camera and take the photo!