12 Things I Commit to Embracing About Myself

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Let’s face it: we all have aspects of ourselves we wish were different. My list of dislikes is long—much longer than the things I love. But isn’t it high time we accept our imperfections? I mean, not all of us can be as witty as Tina Fey, rock a body like J.Lo, or bounce back post-baby like Meghan Markle. I stopped aiming for sainthood years ago, and honestly, I don’t even volunteer for the neighborhood association anymore! But you know what? No shame here. I’m choosing to accept my beautifully flawed self. Perfection is overrated.

1. I Have My Weaknesses.
   I’ve stopped battling them because honestly, I’m not winning. I’ve tried ditching my vices—coffee, wine, and shoes—but they’ve got me wrapped around their little fingers. I know my caffeine habit isn’t the best, but I’m not ready to let go. Sure, I might feel guilty after mixing wine with online shoe shopping, but the thrill is worth it. Embracing my quirks? That’s the true win.
2. I Can Be a Bit Inappropriate.
   I’m not great at filtering myself. Some folks love my unfiltered charm, while others? Not so much. I could try to tone it down (and I have), but accepting my crass humor and love for cheeky conversations makes life way more entertaining.
3. I’m a Homebody.
   Honestly, getting my kids and husband out the door feels like a marathon. Staying home sounds so much easier! When anyone suggests traveling during the holidays, an anxiety rash breaks out. My sanctuary is my home, surrounded by familiar comforts. It may make me a bit of a fun-sponge, but I stick to my guns about my cozy space. Guests are welcome, but they better bring the wine!
4. I Like Things My Way.
   I have a strong preference for having things just so. Negotiating? Not my strong suit. This tendency has only intensified since becoming a mom, where I’m outnumbered by my three kids. Spoiler: Mom always wins.
5. Playing with My Kids Isn’t My Jam.
   I adore my kids and am great at guiding them through activities like baking and crafting. But when it comes to imaginative play? I struggle. I’ve tried to be a fierce dinosaur or a caring doll mom, but my mind often wanders to thoughts of a cozy couch and a glass of wine.
6. I Love Being in Charge.
   Let’s be real: becoming a parent was partly about enjoying the boss role. I love directing the action, even if my crew doesn’t always follow orders, which leads me to my next acceptance…
7. Patience Isn’t My Strong Suit.
   I can be kind, but patience? Not so much. I’ve worked hard on this, especially since having kids, but it just isn’t in my DNA. I blame my genes.
8. I Splurge on Dining Out.
   What can I say? I enjoy being pampered! I have a few favorite restaurants where the staff knows my order and treats me like royalty. I tip well because nothing makes me happier than not having to hear complaints about my cooking while I dodge dishes from ungrateful little humans.
9. Target is My Downfall.
   I might need a support group for my Target addiction, but I’m not ready to change. Where else can I grab a bottle of wine, a new yoga outfit, and a rainbow of nail polish—all while munching on a cake pop? It’s the ultimate shopping experience.
10. I Overthink Everything.
    When I care about something, I can spiral into a whirlwind of thoughts. There’s no middle ground: I either obsess over it or couldn’t care less. Some may label it obsessive-compulsive behavior, but I just call it my unique way of being.
11. Politeness is Hard When I Don’t Like Someone.
    I know I’m an adult and should set a good example for my kids, but being fake-nice isn’t my forte. If you make me cringe, I won’t play nice. I’m not waving at you or falling for your insincere compliments.
12. I Start Strong but Lose Momentum.
    I often kick off my day with grand plans—home improvement projects, grocery runs, etc. But by the time I’ve prepped and wrangled my kids through every store, I’m out of steam. I’ll be pouring a glass of wine instead of tackling that to-do list while berating myself for being lazy.

I wish I could say I accepted my flaws through profound self-discovery or hours of meditation, but that would be a fib. There was no earth-shattering revelation or enlightening moment while binge-watching a talk show. The truth is, I’ve tried to change what I don’t like about myself, but it’s exhausting. So, I’m opting for self-acceptance instead. I hope you’ll join me on this journey!

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Summary:

This piece explores the author’s humorous commitment to embracing her flaws. From being a homebody and overthinking to having a penchant for dining out, she shares an authentic look at her quirks. Ultimately, it’s about self-acceptance and finding joy in imperfection, with a nod to other resources for those interested in home insemination.