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- Are You a Good Mom or a Great Mom?
by Jamie Carter
Sept. 25, 2023
After lots of thought, I’ve come to the conclusion that I proudly belong in the “great mom” camp. It wasn’t an overnight decision. It took years of trial and error and the chaos of raising four little ones, but here I am—feeling pretty darn amazing about it.
Good moms have their kids looking picture-perfect, with neatly combed hair, spotless faces, and punctual arrivals at every event. Their children’s outfits are wrinkle-free and stain-less, and laundry is kept at bay—never a mountain of clothes in sight. They rise early, go to bed late, and their homes are often spotless and tidy. Good moms have babies that sleep through the night, toddlers that stay in their beds, and young kids who hop into bed without a fuss. They’ve got bedtime routines down to an art.
In public, good moms seem unflappable. They maintain their composure, never raise their voices, and their kids seem to follow orders like little robots. Essentially, good moms have their act together, and I admire them immensely.
On the flip side, great moms know that by the time they reach their destination, their kids’ hair will be a windblown mess (and they’ll probably arrive about 10-12 minutes late on a good day). They carry extra hair ties and wipes in their bags because, let’s be real—kids’ faces are often a disaster zone about 80% of the time. Clothing? It’s usually a last-minute grab from the dryer that has been fluffed a few too many times or a dive into the “organized” laundry pile that was supposed to be put away last week.
Great moms also rise early and stay up late, but their homes reflect the beautiful chaos of family life. They’ve given up on perfection because, honestly, who needs that? Their kids rarely hit the sack on time, and when they do, it’s a miracle if they remain in their own beds. Bath time and teeth brushing can feel like a circus act, and sometimes great moms find themselves negotiating (or bribing) their little ones to stay put through the night.
Let’s face it, great moms aren’t shy about raising their voices when needed and aren’t afraid to make a scene in public. They know they don’t have it all together, and guess what? They’re absolutely fine with that. They take the unexpected in stride and couldn’t care less about how they’re viewed by others.
So, whether you see yourself as a good mom or a great mom, remember that we’re all just trying to navigate this wild ride of parenting. And you know what? I wouldn’t trade being a great mom for anything.
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Summary:
Being a great mom means embracing the chaos of parenthood and letting go of the need for perfection. While good moms may appear to have it all together with tidy homes and well-behaved children, great moms thrive in the messiness of life, adapting to the unexpected and finding joy in the journey. Whether you’re a good mom or a great mom, what’s most important is the love and support you provide to your children.