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Why You Should Always Show Moms Your Appreciation
I was at the supermarket with my two oldest kids, Alex and Mia, when we strolled past the flower shop. Alex looked up at me with a big grin and asked, “Are we getting Mom some flowers?” Mia, perched in the shopping cart, chimed in enthusiastically, “Yeah! Let’s get her flowers!” They may not fully grasp the significance of gifting flowers to their mom, but they definitely understand the joy it brings her. This little tradition has woven itself into our family life, and they want to participate in showing their appreciation, just like I do.
When Jess and I tied the knot over a decade ago, I made a promise to buy her flowers every month. To be honest, I didn’t stick to that commitment as well as I hoped. I managed to keep it up for the first couple of years, but between college, parenting, and work, I let it slide. While I still bought flowers occasionally—sometimes after an argument or on tough days—if I had to guess, I’d say it averaged out to two or three times a year. Not bad compared to some couples, but certainly lacking.
I had my reasons: I was too busy, or we needed to save money. But in the last year, I’ve gotten back on track, consistently buying her flowers once a month, just as I promised. And you know what? It’s surprisingly easy. No more trips to the florist, standing in line, or waiting for the bouquet to be wrapped. Now, it’s just a few clicks online.
There are plenty of budget-friendly options that deliver flowers right to your door. It takes just a quick search, and I often get discounts sent to my inbox. I even found a deal that sent Jess flowers for three days straight, which they cleverly dubbed “three days of romance.” All I had to do was place the order, and she loved it! Each day, my kids helped unbox the flowers and place them in water, making it a family affair.
This simple act of buying flowers isn’t just about showing love to my wife; it’s also a lesson for my kids. I want Alex to see how to treat a partner with love and respect, and I want Mia to expect that kind of affection in her future relationships. So, as we picked out flowers together, I reminded Alex, “When you grow up, you’d better buy your wife flowers.” He nodded, serious and thoughtful. Then I turned to Mia and said, “Whoever you marry better know that flowers are a must!” She smiled and hugged me tightly.
Once we got home, Alex and Mia bickered over who would present the flowers to their mom. In the end, Mia won, promising Alex that he could hand her the next bouquet. She burst through the door with a bright bunch of tulips, beaming as she handed them to Jess, saying, “Love you, Mommy!” Alex stood behind her, grinning like a goofball. It was a sweet moment, and Jess hugged them both before giving me a kiss.
Of course, it doesn’t have to be flowers. It could be chocolates, coffee, or anything else that brings a smile to her face. Ultimately, it’s about expressing love and appreciation. For us, flowers are a symbol of that sentiment; they remind her that I’m thinking of her. It’s a small gesture that carries a lot of weight. And I want my kids to understand what romance looks like because mothers deserve that recognition.
Jess is an incredible pillar of our family, often overlooked in her tireless efforts. She navigates messy situations and resolves countless disputes daily. Her body has endured a lot for this family, so buying her flowers is a simple yet powerful way to say, “Thanks for being our rock. We appreciate everything you do.”
She’s still beautiful and deserving of romantic gestures. Buying flowers isn’t an expense; it’s an investment in my marriage and family.
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In summary, never underestimate the power of small gestures to show appreciation to mothers. Whether through flowers, chocolates, or simple acts of love, consistently expressing gratitude strengthens family bonds and teaches children the importance of romance and affection.