Donald Trump: A Trigger for Survivors of Sexual Assault

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It’s often said that trauma has no face, and I can attest to that. Almost a year ago, I fell victim to an assault by a stranger, a man whose identity is lost in a haze of pain and confusion. What haunts me is not just the act itself, but the lingering questions: How could this happen? Why me? As a mother of two young boys, my life is filled with love and responsibility, yet I’ve been forced to navigate the dark waters of shame and embarrassment since that night.

What happened afterward is a blur, but the impact remains sharp. I remember the experience of the rape kit all too vividly—lying there, feeling like a crime scene, while a nurse meticulously examined my body for signs of violence. The months that followed were filled with medical tests and sleepless nights, wrestling with thoughts of despair. I tried to maintain my sense of self, to not let this define me, but it’s a constant battle.

This past week has been particularly taxing, with news swirling around a certain public figure and his recent comments regarding women. This isn’t just a political issue; it’s a matter of basic human decency. The Republican candidate for president has a history that’s concerning at best, including serious allegations against him. His words are not just offensive; they are triggers that bring back memories of my own trauma and the trauma of countless others. When he speaks about women in such degrading terms, it’s as if he’s echoing the very sentiments that led to my assault.

For those who have never experienced sexual violence, you might not understand the weight of his words. They may seem harmless to you, but for survivors, they evoke fear and anxiety. Social media has been ablaze with discussions, but the voices of survivors often get drowned out. His actions and words are a constant reminder of the pain inflicted by our assailants.

This is why I feel compelled to speak out—not just for myself, but for every survivor who has felt forced into silence. Staying quiet only serves to empower the perpetrators. If you see passionate posts against this behavior, take a moment to consider the reasons behind them. It’s not about being a hypocrite or a prude; it’s about standing against sexual violence in all its forms.

Don’t dismiss what might seem like “just words.” Such language lays the groundwork for harmful actions. It’s time to stop normalizing this behavior and start demanding accountability. One in four women are victims of sexual assault. Think about that for a moment. The likelihood that someone you care about has been affected is high.

The man running for office may have wealth and fame, but to me, he embodies the very essence of my rapist. I cannot, and will not, support someone whose behavior promotes a culture of violence and disrespect. I invite you to join the movement in advocating for change. This is about real lives and real issues related to sexual violence.

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In summary, it is crucial for us to speak out against behaviors that perpetuate sexual violence. We must recognize the impact of words and actions, challenge societal norms, and advocate for those who have been silenced by trauma.