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8 Reasons I Won’t Be My Kids’ Full-Time Entertainment
Parenting
By Jamie Carter
Updated: Oct. 29, 2023
We all need moments of peace and quiet in our hectic lives. When I became a parent, I quickly realized that constant entertainment for my kids was not something I could maintain. It’s just not in my nature. I find myself feeling stressed and frazzled when trying to be “on” for them every moment of the day. This doesn’t mean I don’t adore my children or value our special time together; in fact, I cherish those moments even more when they’re capable of entertaining themselves. Whether I’m frying bacon or deep in a chat with a friend, those brief moments of independence are priceless.
Here are eight reasons why I choose not to keep my kids entertained 24/7:
- The Value of Free Time
I need my own downtime to recharge, and so do my kids. They need the opportunity to daydream and explore their imaginations, just like we adults do. Overstimulation can be just as overwhelming for them as it is for me. - Fostering Independence
When I spent every waking moment entertaining my first child, he began to expect it. As a result, he had a tough time adjusting when his siblings came along. By letting my kids entertain themselves, they learn to be self-sufficient and resourceful. - Living in the Moment
Kids (and adults) often remember the spontaneous, unplanned times as the most joyful. If I hovered over them constantly, they might miss out on important life lessons, like sneaking candy or creating their own adventures. - Making Toys Matter
What’s the purpose of all those toys if they’re not being used? I occasionally join in on the fun, but I quickly lose interest if it doesn’t go my way. Allowing them to play independently means they can explore their toys without my interference, giving me a chance to regroup. - Not a One-Woman Circus
Sure, I juggle a million tasks—cooking, cleaning, and organizing—but I’m not here to be their personal entertainer. One of the reasons we had multiple kids was so they could support and entertain each other. - Life Beyond Parenting
I have responsibilities outside of being a mom. My friends, family, and work require my attention, and while my kids are my priority, they sometimes need to fend for themselves. - They Have More Fun Without Me
Let’s face it: I can be bossy and not the best sport when it comes to imaginary games. Without my interference, they can create and enjoy their own fun without worrying about my input. - I’m Just Plain Tired
Let’s not sugarcoat it—this is the biggest reason. While self-development for my kids sounds great, the truth is, I often just don’t have the energy to engage in another round of Monopoly after dinner.
Free time is invaluable for both parents and kids. I’ve got a million things on my to-do list, and while keeping my kids entertained is part of that, it’s not my only role. So, yes, you’ll find me scrolling on my phone at the park or chatting with a friend while they’re lost in their own world—guilt-free!
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Summary
In conclusion, giving my kids space to entertain themselves is essential for their growth and my sanity. It allows them to be independent, fosters creativity, and provides me with much-needed downtime. Balancing my responsibilities while ensuring they have fun is key to our family’s happiness.