Last fall, my son stood basking in the October sun, proudly donning his Scout uniform beside a table overflowing with popcorn varieties his troop was peddling. As is tradition, they were raising funds to support their various activities and gear for upcoming camping trips.
We rolled up to the convenience store where the troop had set up shop, and my son joined his buddies. Their troop leader reminded them to be polite and not overly aggressive in their approach.
As the day unfolded, it became clear that many shoppers were less than thrilled at the sight of a bunch of kids in khaki asking, “Would you like to support Scouting?” Some hurried past, avoiding eye contact, clearly trying to dodge the awkwardness of saying no. While it was disheartening, a few kind souls paused to buy popcorn or at least hear the boys out.
But then a gentleman approached who truly tested my patience. As he neared, he blared out his disdain for Scouting, declaring he’d never part with his hard-earned cash for their cause. He berated the boys for “begging” and insisted they should find “real” activities like sports. His rudeness was palpable, and when he stomped away, the boys were left in stunned silence, their spirits deflated. To their credit, they didn’t lash out or respond in kind, though I felt compelled to give that grumpy fellow a piece of my mind.
Here’s the thing: I get it—fundraising can be a drag. I cringe at the thought of friends and family thrusting order forms for cookies, candles, and sponsorships in my direction. I can’t stand bothering my own family to buy items they don’t want. I often wish there was a way for teams and clubs to raise funds without the hassle of selling cookie dough and wrapping paper.
However, what irks me far more than the fundraising itself is the adults who are downright rude to the kids trying to earn a few bucks. There’s simply no justification for being nasty to a child selling cookies for their Girl Scout troop or candy bars to support their sports team.
Kids today often lack the social skills we grew up with, thanks to the rise of technology and social media. They spend less time having face-to-face interactions, and thanks to texting, actual phone conversations have dwindled. Public fundraising helps these kids break out of their shells, teaching them about social interactions and teamwork. When an adult is unkind to a child trying to learn these skills, it can be heartbreaking.
Moreover, it’s not the kids’ fault they have to fundraise. They don’t set the prices for the activities they want to participate in. Football gear can be pricey, and weekend camping trips can strain a family’s budget, but these experiences are vital for a child’s development. Sometimes, that $10 spent on popcorn or cookies means a child has the chance to spend a weekend in the great outdoors, learning to build a fire. Adults should remember that squashing a child’s enthusiasm can have lasting repercussions.
After the rude man stomped off, another gentleman approached. Smiling, he reached for his wallet before he even got close. He engaged each boy, listened to their pitches, and even complimented them on their poise. Then, he pulled out $100 and bought a heap of caramel popcorn while chuckling at his wife’s teasing about his diet. He said, “I was a Scout once, and I couldn’t afford to go on trips. I try to give back whenever I can.”
That’s how it’s done! As he walked away, arms full of popcorn, one boy remarked that he wanted to be like that man when he grew up, and it brought tears to my eyes.
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In summary, while you may not feel inclined to buy what kids are selling, showing a little kindness can go a long way—not just for them, but for your own peace of mind.