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Stop Waiting for Someone to Tell You You’re Doing a Great Job
I affectionately call myself an affirmation enthusiast. There’s something incredibly satisfying about being recognized for doing well. Whether it’s a grand compliment like “Your creativity is inspiring,” or something as simple as “Hey, your kids are so well-behaved,” I thrive on those words of encouragement. I collect these praises like others collect loyalty points at their favorite coffee shop.
As a parent, one of the most cherished accolades is hearing that I’m doing a fantastic job raising my kids. Who wouldn’t want to bask in the glow of someone saying, “You’re nailing this”? Those moments lift your spirits and can make even the toughest days feel rewarding.
However, there’s a flip side to this love for validation. I often find myself waiting for others to recognize my parenting efforts instead of acknowledging my own achievements. This constant need for external approval can become a draining cycle. Picture this: My kids and I spend the day with my friend, and they’re on their best behavior—polite, patient, and not a single Lego in sight. I’m standing there, waiting for my friend to say, “Your kids are so well-behaved!” instead of realizing how proud I am of them and myself. Talk about wasting precious time.
I understand the need for external acknowledgment, but sometimes the most important cheerleader needs to be you. Reflect on your successes, and give yourself credit for what you’ve accomplished. Parenthood can be challenging, and it’s easy to focus on the negatives—our mistakes and failures. But when was the last time you celebrated how well you managed a meltdown or didn’t let your teen’s eye-roll get to you? When did you last look in the mirror and affirm that you are a gift to the world and that your kids are lucky to have you?
We all want to nurture kind, confident children who believe in themselves, which is why we shower them with encouragement. But to instill that belief in them, we must also believe in ourselves. So stop waiting for compliments from the babysitter or your in-laws. Instead, look in the mirror and say, “I’m a fantastic parent, and I’m doing a great job with these kids.”
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Summary
Embrace self-affirmation as a parent instead of waiting for external validation. Recognize your accomplishments in parenting and give yourself the credit you deserve. By modeling self-belief, you can inspire your children to be confident and self-assured individuals.