By: Mrs. Domestic Diva
Updated: Dec. 26, 2023
Originally Published: Dec. 23, 2023
As a busy mom, I often find myself scrolling through parenting blogs and feeling a wave of panic wash over me. I mean, who has time for weekly sheet washing, daily vacuuming, and scrubbing baseboards? It’s enough to make anyone question their status as a domestic goddess.
I realized I’m not alone in feeling this way. I stumbled upon a quote from the brilliant J.K. Rowling that struck a chord: “People very often say to me, ‘How did you do it? How did you raise a baby and write a book?’ and the answer is, I didn’t do housework for four years!” Now that’s the kind of mom I want to be!
So, without further ado, here are my favorite tips for cutting corners like a pro because you have better things to do than scrub floors—like taking a well-deserved nap or indulging in your favorite hobbies.
1. Dishes Once a Day
Feeling overwhelmed? Just wait until tomorrow. My motto is simple: once you run out of Tupperware lids to use as plates, it’s time to invest in some paper plates.
2. Wash Sheets When They Smell
Let’s be real—who actually washes their sheets every week? If they’re starting to smell a bit funky, that’s your cue. Just peel them off and try not to think too hard about the stains you’ve been avoiding.
3. Train Your Partner
If your husband has a higher standard of cleanliness than you do, it might be time to negotiate a deal. A little flirtation never hurt anyone—maybe if he overlooks the messy living room, you can surprise him later.
4. “Is It Gross?” Rule
Why stress over a cleaning schedule? Just clean when you notice something gross. If your floors look like a crime scene, then it’s time to break out the mop. For the bathroom? Well, that needs attention more frequently.
5. Encourage Independent Play
Yes, I said it! Let those kids entertain themselves. Sure, they might squabble, but this is part of their development. It gives you precious time to focus on what you need to get done.
6. Master the “Surprise Visitors” Clean
When company is on the way, you can whip your home into shape in no time. Sure, it won’t be “Martha Stewart” clean, but “halfway house clean” will do just fine.
7. Refill Medical Prescriptions
If you’ve stopped taking that anxiety medication, consider picking it up again. Sometimes, maintaining a messy house can be a bit much, and a little help goes a long way.
8. Pursue Your Own Passions
While you’re dusting places that rarely get noticed, remember to invest time in your dreams. For me, that means writing instead of organizing my closet. Happy mom, happy life, right?
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In summary, being a mom doesn’t mean you have to be a housework superhero. Embrace the chaos, prioritize what matters, and remember that your happiness is just as important as keeping a spotless home.