So you thought you had cut the cord. But surprise—you didn’t. Your teen is nearly 20 and you thought giving him some freedom was when he moved in with his dad during his senior year. That was tough, but you survived. Or so you thought.
Now you’re standing in front of his dorm room, heart pounding. “This is it,” you whisper to yourself, “I’m really letting him go!” But deep down, the truth hits you like a runaway truck—you’re still holding on (and sobbing like a baby all the way home, reminiscing about those tiny fingers clutching yours while crossing the street).
Then he hits you with the bombshell: he wants to quit college and head to Chicago to chase his dreams in acting and theater. The passion in his voice is undeniable, and he’s convinced he can’t focus on anything else. He’s ready to work, save up, and make the leap to the Windy City.
“Mom, this is it.”
All those moments you thought you were letting him fly? You were still hovering like a helicopter mom. Now, it’s as if the car is careening down the road, leaving a trail of fire in its wake.
You know it’s time to loosen your grip, but the panic sets in. You clutch tighter, knuckles whitening, convinced that it’s your job to keep him grounded. But with every tightening hold, the realization crashes in—he’s going to fight back. The fears flood in like a tidal wave: worries about someone taking advantage of his sweet, gentle heart, fears he’ll crumble under the weight of rejection, and that the flame in his belly might just fizzle out.
“Where’s your optimism?” he’d tease.
“Why so gloomy, Mama?” he’d quip in a ridiculous Irish accent, making you laugh through the tears. And just like that, he reminds you, “I need snacks and laundry detergent.”
Where’s your faith? Do you believe he can not only succeed but shine? The world isn’t as daunting as it seems. There’s light and he is a part of it.
Let him shine. Let him fly.
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In summary, letting your child pursue their dreams can be a rollercoaster of emotions. As you navigate your fears and pride, remember: they may just surprise you. So let them spread their wings and soar.