As we bid farewell to 2016, you’ve probably encountered the widespread sentiment that this year was a total disaster. The chorus of “What a terrible year!” echoes through our social media feeds and conversations. Phrases like “2016 was a mess!” and “I can’t wait for the new year!” have become the norm. But here’s a twist: for me, 2016 turned out to be quite the transformative year. I left my job to pursue a business I genuinely care about. Sure, it came with its fair share of challenges, but it’s mostly been a journey of self-discovery and growth.
I also found joy in spending more time with my kids, particularly during the first half of the year when I relished every moment with my youngest at home. For the first time ever, I had all holidays and weekends off, which allowed for more family bonding. I even managed to train for and complete two triathlons! Plus, with a teenager now capable of babysitting, my partner and I enjoyed more quality time together. However, on a larger scale, 2016 painted a much darker picture.
The tumultuous U.S. election was a significant factor, regardless of political leanings; most can agree it was one of the most chaotic in history. Beyond politics, we faced Brexit, the Zika virus, and heartbreaking events like the ongoing crisis in Aleppo. The loss of countless iconic celebrities, from Gene Wilder to George Michael, further added to the somber tone of the year.
It felt like 2016 allowed racism and misogyny to rear their ugly heads once more. Many people seemed to overlook the rise of bigoted rhetoric, leading to a disturbing sense of normalcy. The negativity online was so overwhelming that unfollowing friends became a necessity, only reinforcing our echo chambers. And now, the mantra for 2017 is “Let’s just forget 2016.” But I believe that ignoring the past will only lead to repeating it. As philosopher George Santayana wisely said, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” Instead of erasing 2016, let’s embrace the lessons it has provided.
Here’s what I’ve learned from this year:
A divided nation only grows further apart when we ignore differing opinions.
So, in 2017, I’m committing to be more open-minded and understanding of those who see the world differently. My goal is to engage in meaningful conversations and truly listen, rather than just preparing my rebuttal. If we citizens can’t find common ground, how can we expect our leaders to? Change needs to start at the grassroots level, especially when it seems our government struggles to function effectively.
I’ve also realized how fortunate I am compared to many suffering individuals, both globally and locally.
Therefore, in 2017, I aim to be more charitable and instill the same values in my children. I want to demonstrate the importance of giving back by volunteering my time, resources, and skills to causes that matter. One person can’t solve the world’s problems, but collective action can lead to real change.
Additionally, it’s painfully clear that racism, hatred, and bigotry are still alive and well in our society.
Hence, in 2017, I will actively stand against these issues and encourage my children to do the same. I’ll continue to empower my daughters to be strong, intelligent, and independent. I will remind them that they can achieve anything they set their minds to. Above all, I’ll teach my kids to be compassionate and to advocate for those who are less fortunate. When we raise a generation to be thoughtful and empathetic, they will be the ones who drive positive change.
I believe that when we rise above adversity, we can achieve remarkable things. Let’s remember 2016 as the year we woke up, paving the way for a brighter 2017.
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Summary:
In reflecting on 2016, we should not aim to erase it from our memories but instead learn from its challenges. The year highlighted divisions within our society, the importance of compassion, and the need to combat hatred. As we move into 2017, embracing these lessons can guide us toward a more understanding and charitable future.