Parenting
by Jamie Parker
Some folks really lose their minds around babies. Okay, maybe that’s a bit harsh—let’s rephrase that. People often act quite amusingly when a baby is around. They goo and gah, making silly sounds that could make even the sternest person morph into a cartoon character. It’s just instinct—like breathing.
I can say this with conviction because my partner and I are navigating life with our 3-month-old daughter. I say “navigating” because it feels like we’re on a ship in uncharted waters. Our little girl is a true delight, and it’s astonishing how just one of her smiles can melt our hearts like ice cream on a hot sidewalk.
However, when guests come to visit our cozy New York City apartment (which is a little more like a storage unit), some individuals tend to get a tad overzealous. They stick their faces too close to her, making an array of bizarre noises while stretching their expressions in ways that could put a mime to shame. This comedic display often elicits giggles from our baby.
We find ourselves saying things like, “Look at you, making her laugh!” or “She must really like you!” or even, “You know, you look a bit ridiculous right now.” But soon after these visitors leave, our baby’s laughter can quickly turn to wails.
Why is that?
Imagine you’re lounging in your favorite chair after enjoying a hearty meal, feeling blissfully content and ready to doze off. Suddenly, a stranger bursts in, making all sorts of chaotic sounds and invading your personal space. It’s akin to someone jumping into your bubble uninvited, causing you to wonder, “Who is this person? And why are they so close to me?” Then, just like that, they vanish, leaving you in a confused daze.
This disruption can send a baby spiraling into tears. Contrary to popular belief, babies might not just be passive observers; they could be processing everything around them in a way that’s wildly imaginative. Think of it as if their little minds are running free at a festival—wild and unrestricted.
So, to all who plan to visit and meet my little one or any baby for that matter, here’s my advice: Just take a breath. Smile, introduce yourself, and keep it light. Think about how you’d feel if a stranger suddenly acted like a maniac mere inches from your face. Put yourself in the baby’s shoes—or booties, if you will.
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In summary, while excitement is natural when meeting a new baby, it’s essential to approach with a sense of calmness and awareness. A little moderation goes a long way in ensuring the baby—and the parents—remain happy.