Stop the Baby Crying Already: Give Them What They Want for Your Sanity

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I remember visiting my friend Sarah after she welcomed her little one. As I tiptoed into her room, flowers in one hand and snacks in the other, I overheard her pediatrician questioning why the baby was sucking on a pacifier. “I just couldn’t nurse him anymore, and he cried nonstop whenever I laid him down, so I gave him the pacifier, and he finally fell asleep,” she said with a hint of desperation.

“Actually, that’s not how it should be. You need to let him cry it out or nurse him instead,” the doctor replied, oblivious to the tension in the room. You could practically feel the frustration radiating from Sarah’s husband, and I was gripping the doorknob so tightly it nearly twisted off. Let’s just say that doctor didn’t last long on their roster.

If you’re not on board with the whole “cry it out” method (and honestly, who can blame you?), then just do what you need to do to keep your sanity intact. If that means holding your baby until they drift off instead of listening to their wails, go for it! Babies only know how to express their needs through crying, and as they grow, they’ll learn to communicate more effectively.

So, for now, give that baby what they want! Take a breather for yourself, and ensure you have the energy to care for everyone else. Trust me, your whole family will benefit. I did the same with all three of my kiddos, and while they may be a bit wild, they’re mostly thriving!

You’re not spoiling them or encouraging manipulation—trust me, that comes later! Responding to their cries won’t turn them into self-centered little monsters. This is especially crucial during bedtime. After a long day, by 7 p.m., every parent just wants a moment to unwind. If letting your baby sleep in a cozy spot next to you while you scroll through your phone is what you need to make it through, then do it. There’s no shame in making life easier for both of you.

When you’re out in public, you might find yourself doing whatever it takes to quiet your kids. Sometimes you can’t just leave a store because your baby is crying—especially when you’re out of essentials like toilet paper or coffee. Babies and toddlers don’t always know why they’re upset, so if handing them your phone or a candy bar keeps them from crying and averts the judgmental stares from strangers, then bribe away! Remember, maintaining your sanity is the ultimate goal here.

Some parents might prefer to ignore the cries, but if that method isn’t working for you and you’re on the verge of losing your mind, just give the baby what they want. If you have older kids, involve them in comforting the baby so you can sneak in a quick shower—because let’s face it, your mental health matters. A calm mama means a calmer household.

So, do whatever it takes to keep going, even if that means giving your baby whatever they desire right now.

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In summary, remember that responding to your baby’s needs is not just okay—it’s essential. By focusing on what works for you and your family, you’ll create a happier home, one cry at a time.