This week, I decided to switch up my Facebook profile picture. I traded in the cute pic of my two little ones pulling silly faces in their festive outfits for a close-up of my own face—yep, my professional headshot.
Now, you might be wondering, “And? What’s the big deal?” Well, let me tell you, this seemingly simple swap was a cringe-inducing moment for me. I’ve always opted for family photos, or ones where my kids shine and I’m lurking in the background like a shy ghost.
The reason behind this change? I’ve recently shifted my Facebook usage more toward business and less on the personal side, which means my profile needed to reflect my professional brand. Logically, it made sense. Emotionally? A whole different ballgame. The thought of switching from a family shot to a solo close-up made me feel a cocktail of embarrassment, vanity, and overconfidence all mixed together.
Before I hit “Update,” I actually tried to find a way to change it without alerting my friends. I wanted to slip under the radar, avoiding comments or likes—basically, I wanted to hide. Isn’t that just sad?
I realized that as all these feelings washed over me. Isn’t it disheartening to be afraid of being seen? To worry that people might think I’m comfortable in my skin or, heaven forbid, proud of who I am?
But I did it. I updated my profile anyway. And sure enough, people noticed. They liked it and commented, and guess what? It was totally fine. But that initial gut reaction? Not so great.
As moms, we shouldn’t feel ashamed of being ourselves or putting ourselves out there, yet so many of us do. Finding confidence in motherhood is hard; we’re all just trying to figure it out amidst the doubts and judgments that loom large.
The truth is, confidence isn’t some mystical trait you either have or don’t have; it’s something you actively pursue. You have to choose to embrace it, knowing that while it might feel like a free fall, you will land safely.
Changing your Facebook profile picture may seem small, but it’s a big leap toward self-acceptance and confidence. So the next time you spot a fellow mom updating her profile with a solo pic, give her a virtual high-five! Be the safety net that catches her.
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In summary, sharing personal photos can be a daunting task, especially for moms who often feel they should be in the background. The journey to self-confidence is ongoing but essential. Let’s support each other in embracing our identities!