Extracurricular Activities for Kids: Are They Really Worth the Cost?

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My partner and I are your average middle-class Americans, balancing our monthly budget with a little left for fun, savings, or unexpected expenses. But boy, did we underestimate the financial commitment that comes with kids!

Before parenthood, I had no clue that a chunk of our budget would vanish into the black hole of extracurricular activities for our kids. Over the years, we’ve signed them up for swim lessons, dance classes, gymnastics, karate, and music lessons. While we feel fortunate to offer these opportunities, the price tags can be shocking.

Costs vary by region, but some things are just expensive everywhere. For instance, one of our kids has been taking violin lessons for years, and we’ve shelled out thousands annually to nurture this talent. We hope it leads to college scholarships, but there’s no guarantee. Sure, it’s a beautiful skill, but it doesn’t come cheap!

With three kids, the total adds up quickly. We want them to explore their passions, but our budget has its limits. How do families with less financial wiggle room manage?

So far, our kids have only shown interest in karate, thankfully sparing us from the financial burden of team sports. But I’ve heard that those costs can escalate rapidly. While recreational leagues might be manageable, if your child aspires to join an elite team, brace yourself for a hefty price tag.

Competitive sports can easily cost thousands of dollars annually. For high-level sports like figure skating, gymnastics, or dance, it’s not uncommon to hit the $10,000 mark. If all three of our kids wanted to pursue one of these sports, it would consume nearly half our annual income—definitely not happening!

A recent chat with fellow parents revealed that spending $200 to $300 a month per child on extracurricular activities is pretty standard. For some families, that’s manageable, but many simply can’t swing it. The pressure is real, driven not only by societal expectations but also by a genuine desire to provide our children with opportunities to grow and learn.

It’s tough to say, “Sorry, sweetie. We can’t afford that right now,” especially when they see friends heading off to dance class or cheer camp. Take dance classes, for instance. At first glance, the class fee might not seem overwhelming. But then comes the realization that the recital costume costs $95—a one-time wear for a performance that lasts five minutes. Add in $10 tickets for family members, and suddenly, you’re shelling out $135 for a short moment on stage. Insane, right?

The most jaw-dropping response I received came from a mom in the South, whose daughter has joined competitive cheerleading. Here’s her breakdown:

• Competition fees: $100/month
• Tuition: $100/month
• Tumbling class: $40/month
• Uniform: $450
• Hair bow: $40 (yes, seriously!)
• Shoes: $35 to $80
• Hotels for competitions: $300 x 9 events per year
• Travel expenses: Varies

And her daughter’s team just got an invite to a big national competition in Disney, adding another $500, plus hotel and travel costs. We’re talking thousands of dollars for one child—and she’s only 7 years old! This mom knows how outrageous it sounds; she even wished to remain anonymous due to the stigma around such expenses.

Yet, many parents feel immense pressure to support their kids’ dreams, regardless of the costs. We’ve opted for local recreational programs and focused our spending on activities our kids are genuinely passionate about. But I empathize with families who simply can’t afford it. The societal norm that kids need these costly activities needs a serious makeover, or we need to find ways to make them more accessible.

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In summary, while extracurricular activities can enrich children’s lives, the financial burden often leaves parents feeling overwhelmed. It’s crucial to find a balance between providing opportunities and maintaining a budget, all while navigating societal pressures.