Embrace Turning 40: Why Your 40s Are Absolutely Fabulous

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When I was in my early 20s, the big 4-0 seemed ancient. Not in a “grandma” kind of way, but definitely not youthful. I always thought those in their 40s must feel a bit nostalgic or even gloomy about their lives. Little did I realize that most of them were simply feeling more like themselves—just better, wiser, and armed with a boost of confidence. I had no clue that many would decline the chance to be 20 again, finding joy in their 40s instead.

As I approach my 42nd birthday, I can confidently say that this decade has been a delightful journey. Sure, I have a few superficial gripes about aging (hello, Grand Canyon-like wrinkle between my eyebrows), but overall, stepping into my 40s has felt like arriving at a party tailor-made for me. Seriously, the 40s are nothing short of fabulous. Here are 15 reasons why:

1. You’re Confident in Your Own Skin. After years of self-discovery in your 20s and 30s, by the time you hit your 40s, you have a strong sense of self. You embrace your quirks and flaws with love, and while you’re still growing, you know who you are.
2. You Care Less About Others’ Opinions. You wear what you love, listen to your favorite tunes, and watch shows that make you happy. The social pressures of youth? Long gone.
3. Increased Respect. While you might not care about others’ thoughts, they now view you in a new light. Young folks see you as a true adult, and older generations regard you as a respected equal.
4. Your Kids Are (Usually) Bigger. Most of us have kids in our 20s and 30s, so by your 40s, you’ve regained some of the freedom and energy that comes with having older children. And it’s absolutely glorious!
5. Life Experience Is Your Teacher. By now, you’ve faced many of life’s significant events—jobs, marriage, kids, losses, and existential crises. You’ve gained wisdom, and it shows.
6. You’ve Cracked the Code on Confusing Topics. Things like insurance and taxes used to baffle you, but now you know the right questions to ask and who to turn to for help.
7. A Wealth of Work Experience. You might have switched careers a few times, but that journey has equipped you with wisdom, confidence, and a resume that speaks volumes.
8. You Know What You Like. With four decades under your belt, you don’t waste time on things that don’t resonate with you. You quickly channel your energy into what truly matters.
9. More Engaging Conversations. By the time you hit 40, you have a treasure trove of stories and experiences to share, making you a fascinating conversationalist.
10. Less Intimidated by Smart People. You’ve learned enough to know that even the brightest minds are just scratching the surface of human knowledge, which makes meeting them less daunting.
11. Skincare Regimen Mastery. You might be battling wrinkles, but at least you’ve outgrown the acne phase for good. Finally!
12. Friendships Across the Map. With a few moves under your belt, you’ve likely built friendships all over, making travel a lot more fun.
13. Better Intimacy. With experience comes understanding—you’re well aware of what works for you and your partner, and open communication is a breeze.
14. A Suite of Skills. Over the years, you’ve amassed a collection of valuable skills, and sharing them with younger generations feels rewarding.
15. The Perfect Balance of Wisdom and Energy. At this stage, you’re wise enough to give great advice and young enough to enjoy life to the fullest. It’s fantastic!

While many of these points also apply to your 30s, they become even clearer as you transition into your 40s. I’ve heard that the 50s bring even more joy, and I’m excited about that next chapter. Aging doesn’t have to be frightening or depressing; instead, it can be an exhilarating journey. So if you’re apprehensive about turning 40, don’t be. These may just be the best years of your life… so far.

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Summary: Turning 40 is an exciting milestone filled with confidence, wisdom, and new opportunities. Embrace this fabulous decade with open arms, as it offers a unique blend of experience and vitality. Aging can be a joyous adventure!