Hey Bey,
Can I call you Bey? Since I’m a twin mom and you’re expecting twins, I think we’re practically besties! I know you’re busy ruling the world, but before you dive into Grammy celebrations or Coachella headlining, let me share some insights about the twin pregnancy journey. Just a little friendly advice from one mom to another, and trust me, it’s all out of love.
1. Forget Everything You Thought You Knew About Pregnancy.
Sure, you’ve had the adorable little Hazel before, but carrying twins? That’s a whole new ball game. You’ll show earlier, grow faster, and it might feel like there’s a small octopus in there! Trust me, counting those little kicks can feel like a math exam gone wrong. By the time you hit the 40-week mark, comfort will seem like a distant memory.
2. Brace Yourself for Invasive Questions.
As a superstar, you’re no stranger to prying questions. But when folks start asking if your beybies are “natural,” it reaches a whole new level of annoying. What does “natural” even mean? Unless you’ve harvested them from a cabbage patch, I think we can agree they’re as natural as they come! Remember, how you got pregnant is nobody’s business but yours and Jay’s.
3. Everyone Will Suddenly Become an Expert.
From stroller recommendations to sleep schedules, everyone will have advice to share—especially those who don’t have twins! What works for them might not work for you. So, do it your way! As a twin mom with a fab circle of twin mom friends, we all found our unique paths, and our kiddos turned out just fine.
4. It’s Not Just Twice the Work.
Remember when you could just grab Hazel and head out the door? With twins, good luck! You’ll need twice the supplies and triple the patience. For us mere mortals, getting out with twins can take at least half an hour—maybe you’ll have better luck (and a team of helpers).
5. Guilt Is Real.
All moms feel guilt, but with twins, it’s a whole new level! Between feedings, changings, and naps, the time for snuggles may dwindle. It’s okay to call in reinforcements, like Grandma or Auntie Lila. Even someone as superhuman as you might have moments of doubt—just push those feelings aside.
6. New Worries Will Arise.
Every parent has their worries, but with twins, you’ll have some unique anxieties. Will they be seen as individuals? Will they be competitive? It’s a wild ride of what-ifs that you’ll navigate with your incredible strength.
7. Nothing Compares to the Joy.
Sure, you’ll face sleep deprivation and the chaos of juggling two babies, but the joy of twins is unmatched. My fellow twin mom friends and I all agree: we wouldn’t trade it for anything. Watching your twins bond is a beautiful thing. Plus, Hazel will score two new besties at once!
Welcome to this exclusive club, Bey! I know you’ll rock this journey and probably teach us all a thing or two along the way. Get ready for the adventure of a lifetime, and remember, I’m just a call away if you ever need support.
P.S. If you’re curious about more on this journey, check out this blog post for some helpful insights, or visit Make a Mom for essential resources related to at-home insemination. For more information on donor insemination, American Pregnancy is an excellent resource to explore.
Summary:
This letter provides advice and support to Beyoncé, who is expecting twins, from a fellow twin mom. It covers various aspects of twin pregnancy, including the unique challenges and joys that come with it, while encouraging her to embrace her new journey with confidence.