Involving Our Kids in Activism Isn’t Indoctrination

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My journey into activism began at the tender age of 8. I stood proudly with my grandmother, clutching a sign that felt like a passport to a bigger world of politics and social justice. Instead of feeling like a pawn in someone else’s game, I was aware of my purpose and the significance of my actions. Fast forward to today, and I’m carrying that torch with my kids, teaching them the importance of civic engagement through good old-fashioned protests.

This summer, we took to the streets to stand against the Confederate flag flying over the South Carolina State House. More recently, we rallied against Donald Trump’s Muslim immigration ban. Our protest kit included homemade signs and a lot of enthusiasm—even if my little ones, ages 3 and 5, were more interested in running around than holding signs. My oldest, age 7, was there with his sign, learning that being an engaged citizen means standing up for your beliefs in a participatory democracy—even if that means dodging the occasional jeer from passing cars.

I made it a point to ensure my son didn’t feel like just a cute accessory waving a sign. We dove into some heavy conversations about the Confederate flag, touching on topics like discrimination, the Civil Rights Movement, and even the tragic events surrounding Dylann Roof. It was challenging territory, but I wanted my son, Max, to grasp why the flag’s presence was a problem.

When we tackled the Muslim ban, we discussed the First Amendment and read “The New Colossus,” the poem etched on the Statue of Liberty. I wanted Max to understand that our protest was about more than just us; it was about standing up for the rights of refugees and others who call America home. As he put it, “We’re protesting the Muslim ban because it’s unfair and goes against the Bill of Rights.” I couldn’t ask for more from a kid his age.

Seeing them at protests isn’t just about teaching them my views; it’s about showing them that their voices matter. While my younger kids may not grasp the issues yet, they’re learning that activism is a normal part of life, not something strange. Max stood there with his sign, even if he spent more time playing than listening to speeches. He was there because he wanted his voice to be heard.

Some people might call this indoctrination, but that feels like a heavy word. We guide our children in many ways—from our religious beliefs to our opinions on anything from diets to discipline—and yet, we don’t label that as indoctrination. So why should political education be any different? As my kids grow, they’ll form their own opinions, and if they disagree with me, they’re welcome to stay home. That’s the key difference: teaching is not compulsory, whereas indoctrination is.

I also want my kids to experience differing viewpoints, so I didn’t shy away from the folks yelling at us from their cars. We stood with our signs, enduring honks and thumbs-ups from supporters and some not-so-friendly shouts from others. I explained that disagreement is part of democracy; it’s healthy to understand that not everyone shares our views. It didn’t hurt Max’s feelings; it puzzled him, and we had lots of conversations about it afterward.

I’m proud to take my kids to protests—not as props or adorable little figures but as emerging citizens learning to engage with the democratic process. Sure, we protest issues we believe are harmful to society; that’s my way of teaching them right from wrong. Your views may differ, and that’s totally fine. Get your kids involved in what you believe in; we might just cross paths on the other side of the police line, brandishing signs and chanting.

So, as we navigate this world of civic responsibility, let’s teach our kids the importance of activism. And while you’re at it, check out this insightful resource on fertility insurance for anyone considering home insemination. You can also find more information about at-home insemination kits to support your journey.

In summary, including children in activism is about fostering awareness and promoting civic engagement, not indoctrination. It’s vital to help them understand different perspectives while encouraging their voices to join in the conversation.