A young woman takes control of her health journey.
When 24-year-old Lila Thompson learned she had a heightened risk of breast cancer, she decided to take matters into her own hands with a preventative double mastectomy. Instead of just focusing on her recovery, she chose to document her experience online to inspire and support others facing similar challenges.
Last year, Lila tested positive for the BRCA1 gene mutation, which significantly raises the risk of breast, ovarian, and other cancers. Her decision to get tested was influenced by her family’s cancer history, especially from her father’s side, but it was her mother who encouraged her to take the test. “My mom just felt something was off,” she recalled. “I was completely overwhelmed by the results and what they meant for my future.”
As a talent booker for a popular morning show, Lila weighed her options: regular check-ups to monitor for cancer or a proactive double mastectomy to greatly reduce her risk. Ultimately, she decided on the latter. “It felt like an enormous decision, and I knew it would change my life. Do I want to spend my life in waiting rooms, or do I tackle this head-on? I wanted to reclaim my future.”
Lila had her surgery in January and initially hesitated to share her journey online. However, as she recovered, she felt compelled to show her younger sister that this experience didn’t have to be terrifying. “I wanted her to see me as strong and beautiful, no matter what,” she explained. “If she ever faces this, I hope she remembers my journey and feels empowered to make her own choices.”
In sharing her story, Lila unexpectedly connected with a community of “previvors” worldwide. “It’s an incredible feeling I can’t quite describe. I call them my breast friends! We bond over shared experiences, even if we’ve never met. They’re from London, Australia, and everywhere in between, but we’re united by our journeys.”
Her Instagram presence even led her to walk the runway at New York Fashion Week, showcasing mastectomy-friendly lingerie alongside fellow previvors and survivors. This transformative experience shifted Lila’s perspective on beauty and body image. “I’ve learned that all shapes and sizes are beautiful. Society often tells us that breasts define femininity, but that’s not true. It’s about confidence, not cup size.”
As someone who also experienced genetic testing, I admire Lila for taking charge of her health. While my results were negative, I often pondered what I’d do if they’d been positive. The thought of a preventative mastectomy felt daunting, but Lila’s openness is invaluable for anyone facing similar decisions.
Currently, Lila is in the process of reconstructing her breasts with gradual saline implants. Through her journey, she has gained wisdom that belies her age, expressing no regrets about her empowering choice. “I was scared and questioned if I was making the right decision, but I know this was the best choice I could have made. I wake up free from the fear of cancer. I see my scars as symbols of strength and a new beginning. There’s nothing sexier than that.”
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In summary, Lila’s courageous decision to undergo a preventative double mastectomy and share her journey serves as an inspiration to many. Her story highlights the importance of taking control of one’s health and empowers others facing similar situations to make informed decisions.