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Expecting Moms: Embrace the Help – Here’s Why It Matters
“Sweetheart, once the baby arrives, I’ll take some time off work to come help you with cleaning and cooking. I can even come a bit earlier to tackle that spring cleaning before you go into labor!” My aunt was incredibly generous with her offer, wanting to make my transition into motherhood smoother.
But here was my foolish response: “Oh, Aunt Lisa, you’re so thoughtful! Would it be okay if you just visited to see the baby instead? We’ll manage the cleaning and cooking, no problem at all.”
I had similar conversations with my sister, my closest friends, and even a few colleagues. Each time, I politely declined their offers. Not because I didn’t want their help, but because I struggled with the idea of letting someone else take charge. Would my aunt understand how I prefer my floors cleaned? Would she feel like I was exploiting her generosity? Declining felt like the polite thing to do.
But honestly, what was I thinking?
I absolutely needed the help.
We live in a society that values independence and self-sufficiency. It’s no wonder that mothers are often led to believe they should juggle everything—from work to cooking, cleaning to carpooling—while neglecting their own self-care. So when I was offered assistance in those crazy days leading up to my baby’s arrival, I found myself saying a firm, “No, thanks!”
That was a mistake.
Embrace the Help
Here’s the truth, mamas: It’s time to drop the facade. The next time a well-meaning friend or family member offers to help with laundry, cleaning, or grocery shopping—or whatever else—let’s graciously respond with a big, enthusiastic “Yes, please!” and show our gratitude. After all, we’re not rude; we know how to express appreciation!
Accepting help means acknowledging that it truly takes a village to raise a child. Letting others in allows us to rest, bond with our newborns, and recover from childbirth. Saying “yes” is also a way of expressing that we value and appreciate the contributions our loved ones make to our lives.
Think about it: doesn’t it feel good to give back in everyday life? Whether you’ve ever bought a coffee for the person behind you or donated time to a local charity, making a positive impact on someone else’s life is a way to build karma through kindness. When you accept help with your new baby, you’re also giving others the joy of contributing to your happiness.
As difficult as it may be to set aside our “I can do this all by myself” mentality, the next time someone offers to lend a hand, the best response is a hearty “Yes, please!” Trust me—you won’t regret it, and your relationships will grow stronger as a result.
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Conclusion
In summary, it’s time to embrace help during this transformative period in our lives. Accepting offers from friends and family not only eases our burden but also strengthens connections and fosters gratitude. So, the next time someone reaches out, say “Yes!” and enjoy the support.