I’ve heard it all before:
“Kids are spending too much time indoors.”
“Today’s youth don’t get outside enough.”
“Too much screen time and not enough fresh air.”
“In my day, we just kicked the kids out until it was time for dinner!”
I completely understand. My kids would thrive on outdoor adventures, and I’d have a moment of sanity if I could just tell them, “Go outside!” and watch them play until dusk. But the reality is much more complicated.
As much as I’d love to send my little ones—aged almost 4 and 5—out to frolic in the sun, we live in an apartment without a yard. The only patch of grass they have access to is a small, unfenced area behind our place. Even there, I have to keep a watchful eye to ensure they don’t wander into the parking lot or, heaven forbid, attract the attention of someone who shouldn’t be around. And let’s be real, 9 square feet of grass isn’t exactly a playground for two energetic kiddos.
Now, some might argue that as they grow older, I could let them venture to the park with a backpack full of snacks. Sure, in a safer neighborhood, that might work. But what about those who live in less secure areas? What about parents who work late and can’t be home until after dark? There are so many factors to consider.
As parents, we aim to provide our kids with opportunities for independence and exploration to help them grow into well-rounded individuals. We know that outdoor play is essential for their development and well-being. However, our primary responsibility is to keep them safe, and for many of us, allowing them to roam freely isn’t a luxury we can afford—emotionally or practically.
Believe me, I don’t want to be that overprotective parent. I want my children to relish the outdoors, feel the grass beneath their feet, and explore their surroundings. But that’s not the reality I’m living in right now, nor is it the case for many others. Telling kids to simply “go outside” until dinner isn’t an option for us, even if it’s a wish we share.
Before you start insisting that children just need to play outside and that parents today are overly cautious or reliant on screens, please consider the context some of us are facing. Instead of piling on the guilt, offer us a little support. A kind word or acknowledgment of our efforts can make a world of difference. At the end of the day, we’re doing our best, and a little encouragement goes a long way.
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In summary, while we all desire for our children to embrace the great outdoors, many families face circumstances that complicate this seemingly simple request. Understanding and supporting one another in our unique situations can help alleviate the pressure we feel as parents.