Dear Sweetheart,
Welcome to this wonderfully chaotic world. I’m truly sorry that it isn’t more welcoming to women like you. Unfortunately, there are people ready to dismiss you simply because of your gender, convinced that being born female makes you somehow inferior.
I regret that you’ll face judgment based on your wardrobe choices. Your incredible intellect, kindness, and courage won’t matter if you dare to wear something that others deem inappropriate. Some may try to shame you, hurling insults like “slut” or “whore,” all while pretending to uphold decency. Remember, it’s they who need to learn about respect and decency—not you. Don’t let their opinions dictate your self-worth or how fabulous you feel.
I’m sorry that you’ll have to work harder to prove your intelligence. Some will dismiss your brilliant insights because they believe your gender somehow clouds your reasoning. When your arguments are met with “you’re too emotional” or “too sensitive,” know that it’s their ignorance speaking, not your abilities. Keep raising your voice, not just for yourself, but for others who might feel silenced.
I’m also sorry that your brother may find life easier simply because he’s a boy. If you both land the same job, it’s likely he’ll earn more just for having a penis. You might find yourself overlooked for promotions, despite being just as qualified. But don’t let that discourage you; you are deserving of every opportunity that comes your way.
I regret that some will view your tears as weakness. Crying is not a flaw; it’s simply part of being human. And when it comes to natural processes like your period, some may judge you unfairly, attributing your feelings to “that time of the month.” Never be ashamed of your body; it is yours to celebrate.
If you choose to have children, I’m sorry that people will criticize your decision to work outside the home, claiming you’re neglecting your family. Conversely, should you decide to stay home, they may suggest you’re taking the easy road. Remember, you will choose what’s right for you—whether that means kids or no kids, work or home. Follow your passion and do what sets your soul on fire.
I know this world often feels heavy, and I apologize for the darkness that seems to surround you. But I want you to know there are many of us out here working for a brighter future. We’re contacting our leaders, attending protests, and using our voices on social media to advocate for change. We’re striving for your reproductive rights, equal pay, and the right to live free from victim-blaming. We are fighting for a better life for you, your future children, and the generations to come.
The path for women is often rocky, filled with challenges and ignorance. But don’t let that dim your hope. We are all passionately standing up for you because being a woman is nothing short of extraordinary. You are strong, smart, and brave—never forget that.
Now, go out there and show the world what you’re made of.
With all my love,
[Your Name]