Why “Killed By Police” Shouldn’t Be A Parenting Fear

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In a world where parents often worry about their children’s safety, the thought of them being “killed by police” shouldn’t even be on the radar. Just consider the tragic case of 15-year-old Tyler Brooks, a high school freshman from Cedar Hill, Texas, who was a bright student and a beloved friend. He had dreams of playing college football and was known for his infectious smile.

One fateful Saturday night, police responded to a call about “rowdy teenagers.” This incident ended with Tyler being shot in the head by an officer. His two brothers and friends were in the car, forced to witness the horror of his death. Initially, police claimed that they fired because the vehicle was backing toward them aggressively. But the story quickly changed when the facts were revealed.

The updated police statement painted a different picture: officers arrived to find a large party, and while inside, they heard gunshots. They then confronted a vehicle that was trying to leave the scene, and despite the lack of any imminent threat, an officer fired into the car, hitting Tyler. The police chief later claimed he “misspoke” in the first report. A misunderstanding, or a tragic miscalculation?

Tyler was an honor roll student with no history of trouble. Yet, even if he hadn’t excelled academically, his life was valuable—just like any other. As one advocate put it, “His achievements shouldn’t be the yardstick for his worth; he should be alive, period.”

Let’s be real: teenagers are often loud and chaotic, but that shouldn’t result in a death sentence. It’s not far-fetched to believe that Tyler and his friends were terrified during their encounter with law enforcement. Should disobeying a police command equate to being shot? I certainly don’t think so.

As a white woman, I have the privilege of not having to worry about my kids in the same way that parents of Black children do. My son is just 6 years old, already towering over his classmates. The thought of him going to a gathering and ending up in a situation like Tyler’s is devastating. Tyler’s parents are left mourning a son who simply went to a party where kids were being kids—and now he is gone forever.

The officer who shot Tyler has been fired, but that hardly feels like justice. The Balch Springs Police Chief stated that the shooting “didn’t meet our core values.” It’s comforting to know that shooting into a vehicle full of children doesn’t align with their values, but that doesn’t bring Tyler back.

After the incident, Tyler’s brothers and friends were treated like criminals, manhandled by police while their brother lay dying. No parent should live in fear of losing their child during a police encounter. Yet, here we are, facing a reality that many seem willing to ignore.

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In summary, the fear of police violence is a grim reality for many families, particularly those of color. The tragic case of Tyler Brooks serves as a painful reminder that no child should have to worry about their safety during a simple outing.