Hey there, my dear friends who still have their mothers,
Life can change in an instant—like a sneaky thief. Just shy of 10 months from the day she was diagnosed, cancer took my mom away. It’s a cruel reminder that one day you’re planning fun outings together, and the next, you’re battling a disease that leaves you with nothing but memories.
I never thought I’d lose my mom so soon and in such a heart-wrenching way. I wasn’t ready for it. Her fate swept in and took her before I could fully grasp what was happening. Thanks to my faith, I find peace and hope, but this Mother’s Day is different. For the first time, I’m navigating the day as a mom without my own mother in the picture. I’ll receive love and thoughtful cards, but I can’t return that love in the way I wish. I can’t thank her for the lessons she taught me about motherhood, both the good and the bad.
To My Friends with Their Moms
So, to my friends who are still blessed with their moms, whether you’re thick as thieves or have had your share of disagreements, reach out to your mom this week.
If you two don’t see eye to eye, look her in the eyes and remind her how much she means to you.
Whether she’s showered you with love or you’ve had your ups and downs, take a moment to express your appreciation.
No matter if she’s been a role model or an example of what not to do, share with her how much you’ve learned from her journey.
Even if your relationship is a little rocky or maybe even distant, there’s still a world of potential for connection.
Call her, hug her, and surround her with your love, regardless of the emotional baggage.
If you’ve drifted apart, make an effort to reconcile.
If you feel indifferent, choose to compromise.
If you’re always busy, carve out time for her.
If showing affection is tough for you, try to let your guard down a little.
And even if you already express love regularly, double down on it this time.
Last year at this time, I had no idea I’d be spending Mother’s Day without my mom. So, please, don’t let another day go by without reaching out to yours.
Happy Mother’s Day!
May you find the grace to give and receive love abundantly.
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Summary
In this heartfelt message, the author reflects on the loss of her mother to cancer and urges her friends who still have their mothers to cherish their relationships. She encourages them to reach out, express love, and appreciate their moms in meaningful ways. The message serves as a reminder to not take these relationships for granted, especially on Mother’s Day.