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Confession: I Think Threenagers Are Amazing
Ah, the notorious “terrible twos.” They used to be the stuff of nightmares for parents everywhere—until threenagers entered the scene. Threenagers, am I right? With their unpredictable moods, wild emotions, and illogical antics, they can push even the most patient parent to their limits. But—call me crazy—I think threenagers are simply fantastic.
Now, I know what you might be thinking. You might assume I’m one of those sentimental parents who romanticizes past stages of childhood while forgetting the chaos that came with them. Isn’t it easy to look back and see only the sweet moments? Sure, a mom may fondly remember the cuddles of a newborn while blanking out on the sleepless nights and endless diaper changes. Likewise, a parent with a teenager might scoff at the triviality of potty training compared to the drama of a teen out past curfew. And don’t get me started on empty-nesters, who seem to have a knack for telling us to cherish every moment, as if we don’t already feel the time flying by! (Insert eyeroll here.)
But hear me out. I’m not one to wear rose-colored glasses when reflecting on my children’s growth. In fact, I tend to enjoy every phase as it comes. My heart doesn’t race at the sight of a cute baby, nor do I long for the days of diapers, despite the allure of those adorable little legs and sweet coos. At this moment, with my kids aged 7 and 10, I adore this phase—right here, right now. Yet, I have a soft spot for 3-year-olds, and it wasn’t too long ago that I had one of my own.
In my book, threenagers get an undeserved bad reputation. Yes, they can be dramatic and prone to meltdowns. Who hasn’t engaged in a 20-minute debate about the day of the week? (We’ve all been there!) They can be emotional and unpredictable, but honestly, don’t we all have our moments? Perhaps that’s why we click so well.
Let me share why I find threenagers so delightful. Three-year-olds are bubbly, chatty, and full of laughter. Yes, they have tantrums, but they’re small enough to whisk away easily, unlike a 6-year-old and a 10-year-old squabbling over a tablet. Three-year-olds still embody all the sweetness of toddlers, often (though not always) potty-trained and sleeping in their own beds. They can hold conversations, crack jokes, and express their own unique interests.
These little adventurers embrace life with gusto. They wear tutus with rainbow-striped tights, don astronaut helmets 24/7, and rock tiaras like they own the universe—because in their minds, they truly do. There are no gender restrictions in their world; they simply gravitate toward what they love, with a resounding IDGAF attitude.
While they might cry at the drop of a hat and display some dramatic flair, threenagers also laugh, love, and forgive freely. They may seem unreasonable at times, but they possess a remarkable awareness of their emotions and the complexities of life. To them, everything is a kaleidoscope of colors and feelings—much more than just black and white.
Of course, every age has its challenges, and three-year-olds are no exception. Yet even with their highs and lows, threenagers radiate hope, optimism, and a full spectrum of emotions. Every day is an adventure, bursting with the zest for life that makes them so incredibly awesome.
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Summary
In conclusion, while threenagers can be a handful, they bring joy, laughter, and a unique perspective on life that is truly refreshing. Their vibrant personalities and emotional awareness make them a delightful phase of childhood that deserves appreciation.