I’ll be real with you—I’ve had my fair share of being called a “crazy gal” more times than I’d like to admit. And honestly, I bet many women can relate. Sure, I own the “gal” part, because let’s face it, I’m not always a bouquet of sunshine and rainbows. But I’ve had enough of being branded as “crazy” whenever I dare to express emotions like anger or frustration that some guy finds inconvenient.
Let’s put an end to calling women crazy. It’s neither charming nor humorous, and most importantly, it’s downright inaccurate. What you might mistake for craziness is actually a woman being self-assured. There are countless situations where women are expected to keep their opinions to themselves. Whether it’s during a big game or a town hall meeting, if a woman voices an opinion that doesn’t align with the crowd, suddenly she’s labeled as “crazy.”
Speaking Up Takes Guts
Here’s the truth: it takes a lot of guts to speak up when you know you might be talked over or dismissed entirely. If you see a woman expressing herself confidently, maybe it’s time to reconsider your judgment.
What you may label as crazy is often just a woman being passionate. You know the type—she’s been active in every social movement since day one. She’s the one at rallies, making calls to elected officials, and advocating for those who have no voice. She’s the one who challenges you at PTA meetings and doesn’t let your casual use of problematic language slide. Some folks call her crazy because she’s relentless in her fight for justice and equality. But let’s be clear: she’s not crazy; she’s brave and determined. She’s a warrior, and her drive is inspiring.
Vocal and Proud
What you might perceive as craziness could just be a woman being vocal. Yes, sometimes women are the loudest in the room, and for some, that’s annoying or offensive. But here’s the kicker: women often have to raise their voices just to be heard in a society that prefers us to be “polite.” It’s disheartening to have our thoughts and feelings dismissed with a simple “crazy gal” label. If we go against the norm, we’re often told we’re being too emotional, and our opinions are chalked up to hormones. That nonsense has got to stop.
We’re choosing to be heard. If that means raising our voices until you listen, so be it. And let’s be clear: in 2023, if the best insult you can come up with is to call a woman crazy because it might be “that time of the month,” just stop already. Such remarks are immature and make you look foolish. A woman’s menstrual cycle is not your business, so keep it to yourself unless you’re a qualified healthcare provider.
Empowerment Over Insults
You can call a woman confident, strong, passionate, and brave. Sure, you can label us loud or pushy if that’s your jam. Just stop using “crazy” every time our awesomeness intimidates you.
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In Summary
Let’s retire the term “crazy” when describing women. It’s a harmful label that undermines confidence, passion, and vocalization. Women deserve to be recognized for their strength and bravery.