To All the Incredible Single Moms on Mother’s Day

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Dear Amazing Single Mom,

I’ve had you on my mind all week. As Mother’s Day approaches, I can’t help but reflect on all that you embody. I get it—Mother’s Day can be a mixed bag of emotions for you. I spent nearly five years as a single mom, and I’ve seen others navigate this journey too.

Let’s be real: Mother’s Day can feel awkward. Without a partner to spoil you, encourage your kids to let you sleep in, whip up breakfast, or shower you with gifts, it can feel like you’re missing out on the celebration you rightfully deserve. You should be pampered just like any other mom!

And there’s that nagging feeling you might have for your child, wishing they had someone to help them craft that perfect gift for you. You might worry that your sons will grow up unsure of how to treat their future partners or that your daughters won’t know how to accept kindness from their husbands. It’s tough to grapple with sadness or guilt on a day that’s meant to honor you.

You may feel a mix of anger, hurt, and isolation. Even if you have a solid support system that you cherish, when the day winds down and the barbecue is over, you still go home to face the challenges alone.

Perhaps, like my friend Rachel, you’ve experienced a few Mother’s Days when your little ones were too young to remember to do anything special. The day often passes without much fanfare, just like any other.

Here’s What I Want You to Know

To all the remarkable single moms out there, here’s what I want you to know about Mother’s Day: The toughest part for me was the heavy burden of responsibility. Everything—providing, nurturing, teaching, disciplining—rested solely on my shoulders, leaving little room to breathe.

So this Mother’s Day, I want to offer you a gentle reminder: you are not alone. Even if you have no support. Even if you became a widow when your child was just a baby. Even if their father chose to be absent from your lives, remember—you are not alone.

This Mother’s Day, I hope you find a moment to recharge. May you receive a sweet, handmade card from your child or a little craft that brings a smile. I hope your loved ones show you the appreciation you deserve. I wish for extra hugs, cozy snuggles, and radiant smiles from your kids. Treat yourself—maybe enjoy a movie or get a manicure (and yes, bring the kids along; the other patrons will understand, right?). If all else fails, serve yourself a meal you love (no more chicken fingers!) and bake your own cake—let the kids decorate, but keep an eye on the sprinkles!

And even if none of those things happen, I want you to remember this: You are a mother. You are special, important, and incredibly powerful. I’m celebrating you this weekend because there’s no one quite like you in your child’s life. You can do this. You will do this. Happy Mother’s Day!

Additional Resources

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Summary

Mother’s Day can be a challenging time for single moms, filled with mixed emotions and feelings of isolation. It’s a day when they often wish for recognition and support but may feel they lack it. However, it’s important to remember that they are not alone and their role as a mother is invaluable. This Mother’s Day, single moms should take time for themselves, cherish the small moments with their children, and recognize their own strength and importance.