I wouldn’t call myself a total disaster, but I’m certainly not one to obsess over cleanliness either. I’d say I’m more of a “chill” person when it comes to my living space. Sure, I enjoy a tidy home, but with three kids we homeschool and both my husband and I working from home, our place sees a lot of action. And yes, it shows.
However, when someone I barely know is coming over, I can transform our cozy chaos into a magazine-worthy space faster than you can say “Mary Poppins.” I can whip our home into shape by shoving stacks of papers and laundry into bedrooms with a bit of frantic rallying of the troops.
If it’s your first visit to our abode (assuming you didn’t just drop by unannounced), you’ll be welcomed into a living room that could easily feature on HGTV, complete with freshly brewed coffee and some stylish décor. I can make it look picture-perfect when I put in the effort.
That said, I’d prefer not to maintain that level of tidiness all the time. With our hectic lifestyle, it’s just not feasible without causing a ton of stress—which really isn’t worth it. So, when good friends come over, we’ll tidy up a little, but we don’t stress about achieving perfection. There’s a good chance you’ll spot a laundry basket in the dining room, a Monopoly game half-finished on the coffee table, and art projects that are still in progress.
And let’s be real: the floor under the dining table probably needs a sweep. You might find a few dishes in the sink waiting for their turn in the dishwasher, and there will definitely be shoes lying around that belong elsewhere.
So, if you come across any of this at my place, take it as a compliment. Seriously.
If I didn’t trust you and enjoy your company, I’d be putting on a tidy façade out of courtesy. But when you’re a good friend, I want you to see our real life. It’s an invitation into our world, mess and all! It shows that I trust you not to judge and that we can be comfortable with each other like family.
Believe it or not, those laundry baskets are a sign of affection. My clutter indicates I care. Those piles of papers mean you’re part of my crew. If you step into our home and it’s not pristine, don’t worry—we’re not slobs; this is just our normal. It’s not a scene from Hoarders, but it’s definitely not something you’d see on HGTV. We love you enough to let you in on our everyday life, so take our mess as a compliment.
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In summary, when you see my home in its natural state, know that it’s a testament to our friendship and a sign that you’re always welcome here.