Hey there, folks! Here’s a friendly reminder: a pregnant woman’s body undergoes a slew of changes, and you really don’t need to comment on them. For reasons that baffle the mind, we still live in a world where people think it’s totally fine to weigh in on the physiques of expectant mothers. Even worse, some believe that these soon-to-be moms should actually welcome unsolicited opinions about their appearance. Going out in public while pregnant can feel like a bizarre game show where strangers are making wild guesses about your weight, due date, or even the baby’s sex!
Thank goodness for comedians like Chelsea Peretti, who recently took to Twitter to hilariously and effectively remind everyone of the cardinal rule: DON’T comment on a pregnant woman’s body. The Brooklyn Nine-Nine star is expecting her first child with her husband, the wonderfully talented Alex Harmon, and she’s had her fill of random remarks from strangers.
Seriously, thank you to that one stranger in line at the grocery store who thinks they need to know there’s still a whole trimester left! If you’re going to comment on a pregnant woman’s size, be prepared for her to hit back with something witty! Isn’t it hilarious how everyone suddenly transforms into a so-called expert on predicting your baby’s gender? Maybe we should all start saying something like, “Oh, I guess sometime next year!” when asked about our due dates.
It’s as if seeing a pregnant woman triggers an automatic response in people: “MUST COMMENT, MUST SAY SOMETHING!” Chelsea’s Twitter tirade perfectly captures why it’s inappropriate to ask pregnant women silly questions or comment on their appearance.
Her rant is not only funny but also relatable for many of us. The key takeaway? If you feel the urge to speak to a pregnant stranger, THINK before you comment. You have no idea what she’s been through—maybe she faced challenges with infertility, or perhaps the pregnancy has been physically taxing. She might be dealing with a high-risk situation or even considering adoption. Or simply, she might just want to get home, kick off her too-tight shoes, and enjoy some peace.
While a simple “congratulations” or genuine well-wishes are usually acceptable, steer clear of commenting on how she looks or offering your “expert” analysis on how she’s carrying. Trust me, she’s already aware of every change happening—she doesn’t need a reminder from you.
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In summary, Chelsea Peretti’s rant serves as a humorous yet necessary reminder that commenting on a pregnant woman’s body is off-limits. A little kindness goes a long way, so think before you speak!