Dining out with my family is one of my favorite pastimes. Whether we’re indulging in our favorite Mexican or Chinese cuisine, or I’m enjoying a quiet moment with one child at a local cafe or fast food spot, these meals are a wonderful way to connect after a long day. Plus, as parents, we get a break from cooking and cleaning while the kids are usually more excited about restaurant food than what I whip up at home. I appreciate this—as do my kids—but I also strongly believe in the importance of good manners.
Manners go beyond simply chewing with your mouth closed or remembering to use a napkin. It’s essential for my children to understand that others are there to enjoy their meals too, and the staff at the restaurant deserve respect. I don’t expect them to be perfect, but I continually remind them about the importance of good behavior.
Teaching manners isn’t accomplished in a single outing, and as adults, we must set a good example. Here are some ways I guide my children in developing respectful dining habits:
- Tip Generously: We all know that kids can create more mess, so it’s only fair to leave a decent tip. Servers rely on tips to make a living; they work hard, running around to meet our needs. Remember, a little kindness can go a long way.
- Clean Up After Yourselves: While it’s true that servers often clean up after patrons, if your child drops food or creates a mess, help out by picking it up. It’s basic courtesy to not leave someone else with the task of cleaning up what your child has made messy.
- Be Respectful to the Waitstaff: These individuals work incredibly hard, and if something goes wrong with your meal, it’s likely not their fault. If there’s a delay, understand that they might be overwhelmed. Rudeness will only make the situation worse.
- Avoid Speakerphones: It’s inconsiderate to have loud conversations on speakerphone in a restaurant. Keep your voice down or take calls outside so others can enjoy their meals in peace.
- Manage Your Child’s Behavior: While it’s challenging to manage a child’s outbursts, a restaurant isn’t the place for full-blown tantrums. If your child is upset, try to remove them from the situation until they’ve calmed down.
- Offer Help to Other Parents: If you see someone struggling with a child, don’t add to their stress with judgment or unsolicited advice. A simple gesture like offering assistance or a kind word can mean a lot.
In summary, when dining out, let’s commit to being considerate and not allowing our kids to act out. And remember, don’t skimp on that tip! Enjoy your meal together.
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