I Don’t Have a ‘Mom Circle’ and That’s Just Fine

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Maybe it’s my introverted nature, or perhaps it’s because I embody the essence of a stay-at-home mom. It could even be my quirky sense of humor. Regardless of the reason, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I don’t have a “mom circle,” and I’m learning to be perfectly fine with that.

I’d be misleading you if I said I never felt a pang of jealousy towards those moms who do have a close-knit group. I often see photos on social media showcasing mothers running together or sharing heartfelt posts about their supportive “tribe” that lifts them up during tough times. They embark on vacations together, organize grand playdates for their kids, or swap childcare duties to enjoy much-needed date nights. Their camaraderie seems unbreakable, and their gratitude for one another warms my heart.

While I genuinely admire this sisterhood, I’ve accepted that my experience is different. I do have a few mom friends, and occasionally we gather to share our stories about the ups and downs of parenting toddlers, whose main mission seems to be driving us to our wits’ end. However, these connections are sparse and often distant, leading me to wonder if I truly have a tribe. A group of women who come together regularly for laughter, support, and fun? Not quite.

There are, of course, drawbacks to this situation. I lack a reliable network of friends to turn to when I need a breather or want someone to look after my kids for a bit. I also don’t have a group readily available to help with childcare so my partner and I can enjoy a night out together. With some planning, I can make these arrangements happen, but it often feels like having a “tribe” would streamline the process significantly. When you have that support system, it seems like someone is always there to lend a hand.

But the truth is, I find myself content with my current situation. I’ve spent enough time wishing for a group of close friends, and now I embrace my individuality. I may be on the periphery of social circles, occasionally welcomed into the inner group, but those moments are fleeting. And you know what? That’s perfectly okay.

I don’t harbor any resentment towards those who have formed strong bonds, nor do I pity myself. I enjoy who I am and appreciate my circumstances. I relish the freedom of being my authentic self without the pressure of constantly coordinating group hangouts or managing group chats about childcare.

I’ve heard it said that once my kids are in school, I might forge connections with the parents of their friends, possibly leading to the formation of my own tribe. For now, I’m at peace with where I am and relieved to stop searching for my kindred spirits. I know I’m a catch, and I trust that my people will find me eventually.

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In summary, while I may not have a close-knit mom circle, I’ve come to appreciate my independence. I find joy in my unique journey and look forward to what the future holds.