Mom Hair: No Fuss, Just Necessity

Visiting the salon used to be a delightful escape for me, but these days, maintaining my gray hair has shifted my salon visits from indulgent treats to necessary obligations. I adore how my hair looks and feels post-appointment, yet I find myself longing for the carefree days when a trip to the spa was simply about pampering rather than a race against time for vanity. The dilemma of need versus want isn’t the only thing that has evolved since my earlier salon days.

Styling Decisions Are More Complex Now

Previously, I would think about cuts and styles that complemented my face shape. Now, I find myself grappling with the question of whether a certain style is age-appropriate. “Am I too old for this haircut or color?” Let me tell you: absolutely not! You should wear your hair however you like, regardless of age. But that nagging thought often creeps in, especially when I see models in pictures who look like they just graduated high school.

Scheduling Appointments Is a Jigsaw Puzzle

Coordinating a salon visit now feels like orchestrating a military operation. Between my husband’s schedule, my babysitter’s availability, and my stylist’s calendar, it’s a miracle if I can find a time that works. Sometimes, I have to bring my son along, now that he’s old enough to sit quietly without causing chaos. He’s got an iPhone and knows how to use it, and I refuse to let childcare challenges stop me from taming my silver strands. I’m definitely not channeling Emmylou Harris here.

The Cost Has Skyrocketed

My stylist is worth every penny, though I can never tip her enough to match her talent—believe me, I try! However, my salon visits have become less frequent due to the rising costs. As my kids grow, they’ve turned into bigger money pits, draining my disposable income. The expense of hair maintenance has also surged, making vanity feel like a luxury. Of course, I can do some things at home, but nothing compares to that fresh-from-the-salon feeling.

Salon Chit-Chat Is More Annoying Than Ever

I used to enjoy the gossip that went on at salons, where friends would joke about the “confession bowl” at the sink as clients shared their secrets. Reclining under that warm spray made it easy to open up, but now I find myself more annoyed by the idle chatter. I’ve turned into that grumpy person who just wants everyone to quiet down so we can finish up. Because we all know color foils process better in silence, right?

People Can Be Shockingly Rude

What used to be a happy retreat has become a place where I hear the most outrageous comments about other patrons. It’s hard to handle such negativity when you’re stuck in a chair, looking like you just rolled out of bed. Every time the chair spins around to reveal my reflection, I’m left questioning whether I’ve been transformed into a troll overnight.

Too Many Product Options

It may seem trivial, but the overwhelming number of hair products available today is exhausting. My hair, which has been processed in every way imaginable, requires salon-quality products, and while I’m all for that, the selection has become absurd. In the past, our choices were straightforward: a shampoo and conditioner for specific hair types and perhaps a light or strong hairspray. Now, there are countless brands and formulas, and I can’t keep track. I need someone to simplify this for me—draw me a picture, even!

The Naysayers Can Be Annoying

Yes, I am fortunate to be able to go to the salon. But let’s be real: this is my personal time, and I refuse to let anyone make me feel guilty about it. Just as you wouldn’t question someone’s need for a daily shower, I have the right to keep my hair looking good. Let me have my moment of self-care without judgment!

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Summary

Salon visits have transformed from enjoyable self-care rituals into complex, necessary tasks filled with challenges. From styling decisions influenced by age to the increased costs of services, every aspect has changed. Additionally, the atmosphere has shifted, with annoying chatter and rudeness replacing the once-happy ambiance. With overwhelming product choices and unsolicited advice from naysayers, it can feel frustrating. Yet, every mom deserves her moments of pampering, no matter the circumstances.