Listen closely—can you hear it? It’s the sound of joy that will soon fill the air as mothers everywhere take a well-deserved break. Yes, dads, Mother’s Day is on the horizon, a.k.a. National Mom’s Day Off. It’s time to start planning!
Don’t put this off. A little effort on this special day can yield benefits that last for months. Think of it as an investment in your family’s happiness and overall well-being.
Every day, the mother of your children is managing the household in ways you might not even realize. From scheduling appointments to planning playdates, she’s juggling it all—refereeing sibling disputes, discovering new recipes, coordinating activities, cleaning, cooking, and so much more. For one day, it’s your turn to take charge and ensure she doesn’t have to lift a finger. You’ll be responsible for keeping the kids safe and making her feel cherished.
Start with Breakfast in Bed
Start with breakfast in bed. But wait until she wakes up on her own and has had time to decide if she wants to get up. And please, don’t let the kids attempt to cook unless they’re adequately trained. Those cute little pancakes that are burnt on the outside but raw on the inside? They stop being adorable the moment you take a bite.
A Successful Mother’s Day
For a truly successful Mother’s Day, whisk the kids away as soon as they wake up. Moms have a sixth sense when it comes to their children, and any chance for extra sleep will vanish if they’re around. Take them out for breakfast, but avoid making a reservation for the whole family—this isn’t a break for her! Instead, grab some pastries and her favorite coffee from Starbucks. Go all out with something indulgent, not her usual diet drink. Return home and present her with a beautifully arranged tray, complete with fresh fruit and a flower, while the kids shower her with homemade cards. Then, discreetly exit before anyone requests a bite of her bacon.
Choose Your Own Adventure
As for the rest of the day, it’s a Choose Your Own Adventure. Is she dreaming of a long soak in the tub? Prepare a relaxing bath with candles, magazines, and perhaps some luxurious bath bombs, then whisk the kids away to a park. Does she need a spa day? Secure an appointment now if you haven’t already. If shopping and lunch with friends sounds appealing, coordinate schedules and handle the bill in advance.
While she enjoys her time out, make the most of it at home. Have the kids tidy their rooms, wash the dishes, and clean the bathrooms. If there’s a grocery list started on the fridge, tackle that too. This will help lighten her load for the week ahead and allow her to come home to a more organized space.
Wrap Up the Day
To wrap up the day, decide on dinner. Order her favorite takeout or whip up a meal she loves. Leave her with a bottle of wine, a pile of her favorite shows to binge, and maybe some snacks while you take the kids for a pizza outing. Just make sure to end the day on a positive note filled with comfort food.
Mother’s Day is a unique opportunity to focus entirely on her. Spoil her, pamper her, and when the day winds down, take a moment to express your gratitude.
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In summary, this Mother’s Day, put in the effort to make your partner feel appreciated. With a little planning and consideration, you can create a day that she will truly enjoy and remember.