The Challenges of My Third Pregnancy

I’m officially done with pregnancy. Honestly, I was over it long before that plus sign showed up on the test. This is my third pregnancy in just over three years, and it feels like I’ve been expecting forever.

While some people cherish this time, I can’t say the same. If I hear one more person tell me to enjoy my pregnancy, I might just roll my eyes so hard they’ll get stuck. Seriously, how is one supposed to enjoy being pregnant? Your body is no longer your own, and life’s pleasures seem to vanish. There’s a lengthy list of dos and don’ts that you’re expected to follow.

Alcohol? Nope.
Sushi? Not a chance.
Caffeine? Only in tiny amounts.
Fish? Only certain types and in limited quantities.

The good medications are off-limits, and the list keeps going. Plus, I’m constantly chasing after two toddlers, so enjoying this experience seems impossible.

First Pregnancy

Ah, the first time around. Everything feels so new and special. Everyone showers you with attention and compliments, claiming you have this radiant glow. Frequent naps are practically mandatory, and no one dares to let you lift a finger.

You’re glued to your pregnancy tracker app, knowing exactly what week it is and what fruit your baby resembles. You can’t help but admire your growing bump whenever you pass a mirror.

Second Pregnancy

People still care, but the excitement isn’t quite as intense as the first. Offers of help are more infrequent. You’re preoccupied with your firstborn but can still relish some downtime here and there. Your baby bump starts showing earlier, and the thrill starts to fade into exhaustion.

By the time you reach your third pregnancy, it feels like nobody notices your growing belly at all. It’s like it’s always been part of you.

Third Pregnancy

Where is everyone? Family and friends seem to have vanished when I need support the most. I’m too busy managing two young kids to find time for myself or even think about naps. I just have to keep pushing forward.

When someone asks how far along I am, I can’t even remember but manage to recall my due date. If they really want to know, they can do the math. You start showing almost immediately, and it feels like you’ve lost all bladder control.

Not Caring Anymore

As I near the end of the third trimester, I’ve lost all concern for appearances. If it fits, I wear it—plaid and polka dots together? Why not! Flip-flops are my go-to for their simplicity. I have no interest in squeezing into anything tight; comfort is key now.

You might even catch me wearing the same outfit multiple days in a row. It’s easy, and I refuse to struggle with getting dressed more than I have to. My hair? Forget the styling; I’m living in messy bun territory—definitely not the chic kind, more like a failed attempt at a hairstyle.

Sure, I might regret not putting more effort into my appearance when I look back, but right now, I truly don’t care.

Feeling Overwhelmed

I feel too big for everything—too big for clothes, comfort, movement, and even life. Bending over? That’s a strategic decision now. If I drop something, it better be worth the effort because I may just leave it there until someone else can pick it up.

When I do manage to end up on the floor, I’ve learned to entertain my kids while I’m down there. Everything can happen on the ground, from reading to puzzles. I can even pretend to chase them without actually moving much. Maybe it’s lazy parenting, but I prefer to think of it as resourceful.

Almost There

Putting my complaints aside, I feel incredibly blessed. I’m thrilled to welcome our third child into the world, and I can’t wait for this baby to arrive. Sure, my attitude won’t change much, but at least I’ll have my body back and the chance to reconnect with my old friend—wine.

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Summary

Pregnancy, especially the third time around, can feel overwhelming and exhausting. The support you received during your first pregnancy often fades, leaving you to juggle the demands of motherhood while navigating the discomforts of pregnancy. Despite the challenges, the anticipation of welcoming a new child brings joy and excitement.