We’ve all heard the familiar refrain:
- “Kids are cooped up indoors too much.”
- “Today’s kids don’t get enough fresh air.”
- “Too much screen time, not enough outdoor play.”
- “In my childhood, we were simply sent outside until dinner!”
I understand the sentiment. My children would thrive and be more content—and I could use a break—if I could just say, “Go play outside!” and let them enjoy the sun and grass until dusk.
However, the reality is much more complicated. I wish I could simply direct my kids to grab their shoes and jackets and head out to play, while I take care of chores and catch up on current events. They would relish that freedom, but we live in an apartment, which means we lack a yard. There’s a small strip of grass behind our building, but I have to supervise them closely to prevent them from wandering into the parking lot or worse. The thought of something terrible happening or having the police called on me for letting my kids play independently is daunting.
Additionally, a mere 9 square feet of grass isn’t likely to keep two young children entertained for long.
Some might argue that as my kids grow—nearing 4 and 5 years old—I could let them venture out with a backpack filled with snacks and drinks. They could stroll happily to the park. While we don’t reside in a particularly dangerous area, what about families who do? What of parents who work late and return home after dark? There are numerous factors to consider.
As parents, we strive to provide our children with experiences that foster independence, helping them become well-adjusted adults. Outdoor play is beneficial for their development, maturity, and overall well-being. Yet, our primary obligation is their safety, and for many of us, sending them out into the unknown raises legitimate concerns.
I genuinely don’t want to be overprotective. I don’t wish to raise children who are isolated indoors, missing out on the joys of outdoor play with sticks and balls. I want them to embrace the outdoors, to experience freedom and autonomy. However, that isn’t our current reality, and for many families, it’s not a possibility either.
Before you criticize parents for keeping their children indoors or relying too heavily on screens, take a moment to understand the unique situations some of us face. Instead of adding to our guilt, support us by acknowledging that we’re doing our best. A kind word can go a long way in making us feel validated in our parenting choices.
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In summary, while sending kids outside to play seems like a simple solution, the realities many families face are complex and multifaceted. Understanding and support are crucial as we navigate this parenting journey.